Just to put your mind at rest... I am the weigh-in woman at my group. The pda thing shows current weight and the weight difference (we need to see this so that we can write it in your book). We have so many people to get through that it's just numbers (I can't tell you what anyone in my group weighs - I haven't a clue!!).
There are only 3 numbers I remember each week... What I weighed in last time, what I weigh this time and the amount that I've lost/gained.
If you are concerned about a specific person doing your weigh-in (ie a friend/enemy/family member - who you do not want to know your weight (and who is likely to remember because they know you so well)) then you can ask that either the consultant or another member of the social team does your weigh-in.
HTH to put your mind at rest.
Thank you all so much for your replies.. this has reassured me. I turned up at the group to find a person who I have a long and complicated history with doing the 'check-in'
At the moment there are only 3 people in the world who know my weight - me, a counselling therapist and the consultant. I definitely, definitely could not cope with this person knowing because she has let me down in the past with something I had told her in confidence.
I was considering leaving the group, but I will just speak to the consultant about it. I know we are all there for the same reason, but I have a few personal/trust issues which I am trying to get over with the help of a therapist... just not there yet! :cry:
Thanks for your advice everyone.![]()
Just to put your mind at rest... I am the weigh-in woman at my group. The pda thing shows current weight and the weight difference (we need to see this so that we can write it in your book). We have so many people to get through that it's just numbers (I can't tell you what anyone in my group weighs - I haven't a clue!!).
There are only 3 numbers I remember each week... What I weighed in last time, what I weigh this time and the amount that I've lost/gained.
If you are concerned about a specific person doing your weigh-in (ie a friend/enemy/family member - who you do not want to know your weight (and who is likely to remember because they know you so well)) then you can ask that either the consultant or another member of the social team does your weigh-in.
HTH to put your mind at rest.
What a fantastic idea!! I do the weight's in group and would be happy to sign a disclaimer, If it gave people confidence that their details are confidentiali noticed this week that the lady who normally does either weighs or check in had a little confidentiallity agreement on her desk that she had signed and had laminated.