personal trainer sounding good to me.. i think i would be very motivated if i had a chunky hunky personal trainer to come and get me up in the morning ready for my 'work out ' haha! not fussy with either brazillian type - dark haired, dark eyes , olice skin... or the more nordic look.. blonde hair or blue eyes.. so long as am looking at least 6 ft 2, with some decent muscles, wicked sense of humour, cheeky grin and some stamina :-D lol.. i can see how that would motivate me and my dieting 1000% :-D