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Hen weekend

#1
Hi everyone, I have found myself in a dilemma and its really getting to me....

I am meant to be going to a magaluf tomorrow on a hen weekend (home late monday night). I really do not want to go, but I cant tell my friend cos I dont want to let her down. I feel quite upset and frustrated about the whole matter.

LT is one reason I dont want to go -everyone will be drinking and eating - and although I know I dont want to do that - I dont want to listen to people putting me under pressure to drink - also the weather forecast says rain and storms when we are there so that means I will be stuck inside probably the whole time - and I dont really want everyone knowing im on LT.

Also I have put on so much weight I have no clothes to fit me and I dont want to buy new ones. Also all the girls going are really slim. Also I am justing starting my own business and I am so stressed and have so much to do...

I dont want to go and ruin it for everyone but the response from a couple of people I have told that I dont want to go is so bad that I feel I cant drop out.... i feel trapped.

what should i do???????????????? :(
 
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#2
Dont go, its your choice though......................Deal or no deal? XX
 

nictastic

Says it as it is!!!
#3
Can you not catch a mystery virus hun..... I think i would...no point going if its raining and if youre not going to enjoy it hun xx
 
#4
I have the same dilemma on Saturday - go or no go to a Duck do?
 

lillie

weighs a lot less
#5
liking nics idea of an illness but if you have to go tell them the truth if they are your true friends then they will understand xx
 
#6
A duck do? lol Well you made me laugh there... which has lifted me - thanks for both your comments - it has made me feel more confident and relaxed about not going. Thanks. xox :)
 
#7
Hmmm. Personally I wouldn't go, not sure whether I would tell themm the real reason though. And you know how hens go now, there will be a part 2 when they get home anyway!!
 
#8
Yeah u know what some people are like though - they hear you are on a diet that you dont eat food - once they get the drink in them they will probably be lecturing me that i am on a bad diet etc!!! lol oh what a nightmare that would be! lol

x
 


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