really hope that they sort something for you soon. Could you speak to the local housing officer to see if they can get you on the list for a bigger place or council if you're private?
We are council tenants and I know it's really not easy but with so many of you they have to take it seriously, you are drastically underhoused and if your family fell apart because of that they local authority would be picking up the pieces. I'm a foster carer and have seen it all to often with families who just can't cope.
Please don't think i'm saying this about you, but it's a tool to use when asking for housing. ((Hugs)) Be honest with them if things are tough you need to get on their nerves about it! lol Even a letter from your GP about the stress you are under etc could help.
Don't forget to apply for benefits you are entitled to, child tax credit, there is a healthy eating grant - from 23 weeks - i'll post a liink for that. And chase that housing benefit!! lol it's really not easy but we have to be blooming stubborn sometimes in life.