thanks for all the replies, am still not quite sure what i am going to say but am sure i will figure something out in the morning,
Minnimel - i can totally relate to the things you just said when i had my first visit it was pretty much the same thing, the first thing she said was that she didnt want to be a consultant but had been talked into it by her consultant, i had loads of questions all of which she said ''i'll explain in a minute'' then never actually got round to it, i was in there about 10 minutes for my first appointment, she said she needed to contact my gp because of my BMI yet took none of my gp's details, i asked about the flavours e.t.c and was told what i wouldnt like because she didnt like them, when i've asked for support i've got what i can only explain as sarky comments back, i should have prob changed after my first appointment but just put it down to her having an off day (she was on SS too)
My new CDC however sounds really nice has already emailed me several times today to ask how i'm getting on, we've spoke on the phone too and she's coming to my house for weigh in, in the morning which is a big help with my 2 year old and an unreliable car, (the old consultant does do home visits too but seemed reluctant when i asked her about them)
i just felt rather disheartened after the last text i got in response to ''i'm struggling today and really need to eat something what can i do'' she replied '' i did say day 4 would be the hardest'' then 20 or so mins later came ''have an extra shake/soup if your desperate''
That kinda summed it up for me i think and made me start looking for a new one.
I am hoping to become a CDC myself once i'm more established with the plan and have reached my goal but so atleast i now know how not to treat people!
(sorry for the ramble lol)