sarah_lou1981
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I'm the same with every scan and midwife appointment. I think it just makes us normal, especially when we've wanted it so much xx
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Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Can't begin to imagine how devastating a MC is but think positive chic.. All will be fine..
Let us know how it goes.. And good luck xxx
Let us know how it goes.. And good luck xxx
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
Hi hun, hope you're ok xx 
Kellie mum of 4
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Ho I had my scan it wasn't the best result for me my babies nuchal translucency was high at 5.8mm so I have to go to kings college hospital within the next few days for a cvs test so I won't know for certain what is going on with my baby until I have the test the plus side will be I get to find out the sex nice and early x
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Hi hun. Not sure what that means but will keep u n bubs in my prayers. Hopefully it'll all work out well xxxx
Kellie mum of 4
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Thanks hun it means I have a higher risk of my baby having down syndrome or another chromosome defects the cvs puts a big needle through my belly and takes a sample of the placenta which will give me answers either way x
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
Hi honey,
I'm really sorry you didn't get the best result...I'm keeping you and your baby in my "hopes and wishes" and hope that everything turns out ok. There's still a good chance that everything is absolutely fine xx
I hope the cvs test goes ok, i know you are probably feeling scared x
Here for you and will keep you and baby in my thoughts xxxxx big cuddles xxxxx
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Oh right ok. Sorry. New to this :/
How detailed will the cvs results be? As in... Will it say yes r no. N if yes, to what extent the disability will be?
Sorry. U don't need to answer if its painful. Am sure yer still getting ur head round it
Kellie mum of 4
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Yes the test will give me a definite yes or no it checks for all chromosome disability and I don't they can tell how bad things will be until the child is born although it will be a much better scan so can check its heart ect but I have no clue what I am going to do until I get the answers as I need to consider the other kids as well although telling them there was something wrong made my 2 middle kids cry this was exactly the reason I didn't want anyone to know until after my scan x
Kellie mum of 4
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Thanks for that I am trying to think positive and not worry until I know for sure x
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Just try keep calm n rest as much as u can chive those kids tonnes of cuddles n hugs. An sorry ur going thru this. Hav u booked yer scan? Xxx
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
Yeah just have to try and stay positive and calm hun as much as you can. I know that must be so difficult under the circumstances, particularly if your kids are upset too...no one likes seeing children upset. How is your other half doing? Do you know when the test is going to take place? I'm sure you have so much going on in your head right now. Like Frances said, lots of cuddles with the kiddies and hubby too. Try and stay strong xx from what I've read it doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong, it's just that there's a higher risk that's all.
Take care honey, I hope you're ok. Sending you a big, virtual hug. xxx
Take care honey, I hope you're ok. Sending you a big, virtual hug. xxx
sarah_lou1981
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Sorry I've missed all this hun. Like everyone else has said, you just need to try to stay calm and positive. I know it's hard but until you know anything for definite try to concentrate on your other little ones. Thinking of you and keeping everything crossed for you. Hugs xxx
Kellie mum of 4
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Here is my scan photos thought I would share and thanks for all your hugs and well wishes I am trying to keep positive and calm as stress is no good for my baby and my hubby is very upset and not really talking about it but we will have to have a huge chat once I know either way
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Aww they're luvly. Great pix.
I'd say hubby us quiet as he's afraid he'll get upset n feels he needs to keep strong for u n the kiddies. He doesn't of course. Ben that's men isn't it?!
Huge hugs hunnie xxx
Kellie mum of 4
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He said he broke down on the way home from work as of yet I have not cried I think I am trying to be strong for everyone and I am sure when I am o my own it will hit me and I will cry x
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Takes me days for a shock to set in. Just don't bottle it up hun. It'll do U no good xxx
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
Don't be afraid to let it out hun if that's what you need to do. Your scan pictures are lovely xx beautiful xx
Keeping everything crossed for you xxx
Keeping everything crossed for you xxx
