You can do it! You need to change your life style for the last time and do it for the better, good on you for joining the gym.

I am currently having a bad week and absolute dreading my weigh in tomorrow because I pigged out this week and feel utterly disgusted in myself but I know that I need to face up to it and pull my finger out.
The best advice I can give you is; drink plenty of water, eat lots of fresh fruit, at meal times make sure you fill your plate up with veggies. I am following Slimming World so it's a little complicated to explain how I eat, but I eat lots of lean meats, pasta, rice, vegetables, eggs. Things like stir fry, spaghetti bolognase, meat & veg dinners. Exercise wise, I aim to work out 4 times a week, I am pushing myself with that but I think 2-3 times a week is enough. I usually go for 2 hours each time, I either do an 1hour class (Zumba, Body Combat, Yoga) followed by 1hour of cardio training (20minutes treadmill, 30minutes cross trainer, 5 minutes rowing, 15 minutes cycling). When I first started going to the gym, I kept trying all the different classes and experimenting with the equipment till I found a routine for me. Sorry my advice is not exactly the greatest. Perhaps joining a slimming group like Weight Watchers or Slimming World would be a good start? People are really friendly and you gain lots of advice, nobody judges you because you are all in the same boat, my group has a few people who are over 25 stone as well and they get welcomed and treated the same as everyone else.
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