If You Fail To Prepare, You Prepare to Fail

[elfy1807]

Hey Sweeties,

Finally got time to sit down and to update you all..

Firstly, I wanted to say thank you for all your messages and pm's since I posted this morning, it means a lot to have you all here for me.

So where do I start...

As most of you know I had two bereavements and a car accident last year, the latter of which has prevented me from going to the gym and losing my job etc. I found out yesterday that my GP has not been doing his job properly and therefore my claim for things like Poppy's Car Seat has come to an abrupt halt, I'm devastated as this has been gong on since the beginning of September and although out of pocket I just held out hope that it would be sorted eventually and now I'm not so sure :-( Aside from that my diagnosis from the consultant is far worse than I could ever have imagined, I'm looking at another 6months minimum for recovery which means no gym no classes no nothing really for about 18 months since the accident in total,gutted.com :-(

I am a bubbly person but also very private and there are things which I haven't spoken about on here, I have a couple of medical conditions and those despite a huge upped dosage of medication are not improving, I feel like I'm losing the battle with my health if I'm honest.

So there's the doom and gloom of the past 24hours or so, I do have one piece of news....Poppy's Dad who I'm not with but is probably one of my closest friends has booked to go away to Butlins and then Wales and we leave on Friday, him along with my parents are devastated with the diagnosis and they've also booked for us to go away in August for 5 Days. I think we know in our hearts that these will be our last holidays in a long long while as I'm going to be spending a lot of time in Appointments.

I'm sorry that I have waffled on and I'm sorry that I haven't been entirely honest about my health but I'm just not one for talking about it.

Lots of Love to each and everyone of you and I'm sorry that I haven't been there to support you in your individual journeys. I will attempt to get round diaries later but I struggle to focus on the screen with the medication that I've been put on.

Serena xxxxx

Really sorry to hear about your troubles.

As for not being honest about your health - you haven't lied to us, and it's technically none of our business what we do and don't know about you.
It's your choice to tell us what you want to.
So don't feel guilty about it.

It's upsetting to hear that you feel you're not winning against your health and I'm sure we all would love to be able to help you win the battle if we could.
And also that you can't exercise for at least another 6 months - but you're doing so well losing weight without it that you shouldn't worry too much.
GPs are absolutely gits - I hate going because I just feel so awkward and stupid siting in front of them that I probably don't get it resolved fully the first time round.
Like with my dizziness a few weeks ago - was at the hospital today and was told my blood pressure was low and that I should go back and speak to my GP about it.
But I already did that and was told there was nothing obviously wrong.
But hey ho.

Butlins and Wales sounds fab - you going to north or south Wales?
You deserve a break - get away from home and chill.
And it's really good you have such a good relationship with Poppy's dad.

We all hope you feel better soon.

Love you so much!
xxxxxx

 

[KellyS111]

Hey Sweeties,

Finally got time to sit down and to update you all..

Firstly, I wanted to say thank you for all your messages and pm's since I posted this morning, it means a lot to have you all here for me.

So where do I start...

As most of you know I had two bereavements and a car accident last year, the latter of which has prevented me from going to the gym and losing my job etc. I found out yesterday that my GP has not been doing his job properly and therefore my claim for things like Poppy's Car Seat has come to an abrupt halt, I'm devastated as this has been gong on since the beginning of September and although out of pocket I just held out hope that it would be sorted eventually and now I'm not so sure :-( Aside from that my diagnosis from the consultant is far worse than I could ever have imagined, I'm looking at another 6months minimum for recovery which means no gym no classes no nothing really for about 18 months since the accident in total,gutted.com :-(

I am a bubbly person but also very private and there are things which I haven't spoken about on here, I have a couple of medical conditions and those despite a huge upped dosage of medication are not improving, I feel like I'm losing the battle with my health if I'm honest.

So there's the doom and gloom of the past 24hours or so, I do have one piece of news....Poppy's Dad who I'm not with but is probably one of my closest friends has booked to go away to Butlins and then Wales and we leave on Friday, him along with my parents are devastated with the diagnosis and they've also booked for us to go away in August for 5 Days. I think we know in our hearts that these will be our last holidays in a long long while as I'm going to be spending a lot of time in Appointments.

I'm sorry that I have waffled on and I'm sorry that I haven't been entirely honest about my health but I'm just not one for talking about it.

Lots of Love to each and everyone of you and I'm sorry that I haven't been there to support you in your individual journeys. I will attempt to get round diaries later but I struggle to focus on the screen with the medication that I've been put on.

Serena xxxxx

Oh hunny.

You really are going through the wars aren't you.

It was so brave to share everything with us, and it got me really tearful. GP's are awful. I work for the NHS and see so many similar issues. Its all just about money.

Stick to your guns and don't give up.

I too have quite a few medical issues and probably not as bad as yours, but do understand what its light practically living in hospitals and doctors. I have 3/4 outpatients appts a month and hate it.

Dont put to much pressure on your self with WW. Just think about your self and Poppy. Have a great break and take one day at a time


Xxxxx

 

[*sarah-lou*]

Hey Sweeties,

Finally got time to sit down and to update you all..

Firstly, I wanted to say thank you for all your messages and pm's since I posted this morning, it means a lot to have you all here for me.

So where do I start...

As most of you know I had two bereavements and a car accident last year, the latter of which has prevented me from going to the gym and losing my job etc. I found out yesterday that my GP has not been doing his job properly and therefore my claim for things like Poppy's Car Seat has come to an abrupt halt, I'm devastated as this has been gong on since the beginning of September and although out of pocket I just held out hope that it would be sorted eventually and now I'm not so sure :-( Aside from that my diagnosis from the consultant is far worse than I could ever have imagined, I'm looking at another 6months minimum for recovery which means no gym no classes no nothing really for about 18 months since the accident in total,gutted.com :-(

I am a bubbly person but also very private and there are things which I haven't spoken about on here, I have a couple of medical conditions and those despite a huge upped dosage of medication are not improving, I feel like I'm losing the battle with my health if I'm honest.

So there's the doom and gloom of the past 24hours or so, I do have one piece of news....Poppy's Dad who I'm not with but is probably one of my closest friends has booked to go away to Butlins and then Wales and we leave on Friday, him along with my parents are devastated with the diagnosis and they've also booked for us to go away in August for 5 Days. I think we know in our hearts that these will be our last holidays in a long long while as I'm going to be spending a lot of time in Appointments.

I'm sorry that I have waffled on and I'm sorry that I haven't been entirely honest about my health but I'm just not one for talking about it.

Lots of Love to each and everyone of you and I'm sorry that I haven't been there to support you in your individual journeys. I will attempt to get round diaries later but I struggle to focus on the screen with the medication that I've been put on.

Serena xxxxx

Oh my lord. Massive hugs gorgeous lady. You should never feel like you cant talk about stuff with us. If you dont want to do it publicly then thats ok but we wouldnt mind if you pmed us. I know what its like to feel things are getting worse with your health. At the moment more of me seems to broke rather than working and im in terrible pain.

If you ever want to chat or message feel free to pm me for my mobile. Im always happy to lend an ear. I can never get much time on here. But always have time to text.

Massive huggles.

Let me know if there is anything you need help with as I will do what I can. Even if it means posting emergency belgian buns



Xxxxx

 

[UKSerena]

Thank You Emma and Kelly and Sarah for your kind words, I totally forgot to mention food in that post despite this being a food thread lol! I think I am winning my emotional battle with food as I've managed to stay on track Sunday, Monday and today. Probably eaten a bit more 'rubbish' than I would normally but sticking to my 26pp. I know it's not important in the grand scheme of things but I need to keep in control of my food as everything else is out of control. X PS-Emergency Belgian Buns sounds fab, as long as they fit into my 26pp ;-) x

 

[Tano]

Sending u a massive kiss x

 

[the_last_time]

Hey Sweeties,

Finally got time to sit down and to update you all..

Firstly, I wanted to say thank you for all your messages and pm's since I posted this morning, it means a lot to have you all here for me.

So where do I start...

As most of you know I had two bereavements and a car accident last year, the latter of which has prevented me from going to the gym and losing my job etc. I found out yesterday that my GP has not been doing his job properly and therefore my claim for things like Poppy's Car Seat has come to an abrupt halt, I'm devastated as this has been gong on since the beginning of September and although out of pocket I just held out hope that it would be sorted eventually and now I'm not so sure :-( Aside from that my diagnosis from the consultant is far worse than I could ever have imagined, I'm looking at another 6months minimum for recovery which means no gym no classes no nothing really for about 18 months since the accident in total,gutted.com :-(

I am a bubbly person but also very private and there are things which I haven't spoken about on here, I have a couple of medical conditions and those despite a huge upped dosage of medication are not improving, I feel like I'm losing the battle with my health if I'm honest.

So there's the doom and gloom of the past 24hours or so, I do have one piece of news....Poppy's Dad who I'm not with but is probably one of my closest friends has booked to go away to Butlins and then Wales and we leave on Friday, him along with my parents are devastated with the diagnosis and they've also booked for us to go away in August for 5 Days. I think we know in our hearts that these will be our last holidays in a long long while as I'm going to be spending a lot of time in Appointments.

I'm sorry that I have waffled on and I'm sorry that I haven't been entirely honest about my health but I'm just not one for talking about it.

Lots of Love to each and everyone of you and I'm sorry that I haven't been there to support you in your individual journeys. I will attempt to get round diaries later but I struggle to focus on the screen with the medication that I've been put on.

Serena xxxxx

Oh Serena, sorry to hear you're having such bad problems with your health....as Emma said you haven't been dishonest with us or anything of the like...it's your body, your health & you should only share if you feel you can & are comfortable with that.

I really hope that you adjust to the medication & see some recovery...and that your ongoing appointments will help you get to the bottom of your issues & you see a resolution.

Such a shame about the exercising too, but you are the best walker their is & you've been doing so well, who needs the gym anyway?!

Glad you've got some time out coming up - hope it leaves you feeling invigorated

Big hugs, Hannah xx

 

[trinab]

I dont even no wot to say hun other than im gutted for u. Dont b sorry for not bein on here hun u r so more important rite now. Im so sory hun if anybody deserves sum luck its u. Your honestly an amazing person. I at least hope that u have a gud time away and that it helps to take your mind off it a little. Love u lots like jelly tots.xxx

 

[UKSerena]

Hey Hannah and Trina, Thank You for your kind words, at least walking doesn't cost me £20 a month ;-) It just gives me reason to go shopping more often ;-) x

 

[elfy1807]

Hey Hannah and Trina, Thank You for your kind words, at least walking doesn't cost me £20 a month ;-) It just gives me reason to go shopping more often ;-) x

Brilliant reasoning!!
Love it!!

Get skinny by saving money and doing exercise for free, and then show off that skinny-ness using the money you saved!

 

[UKSerena]

Brilliant reasoning!!
Love it!!

Get skinny by saving money and doing exercise for free, and then show off that skinny-ness using the money you saved!

Talking of Shopping....u know I have a thing for polka dots at the moment? I saw the most Vintage Dress today, it was Navy Blue with what looked like tiny red polka dots, as I got closer they were actually ladybirds! OMG it was amazing, obviously they only had one in stock so I promptly tried it on and it fitted so I treated myself I didn't realise it but the brand is a subsidiary of one of my other favourite dress brands! X

 

[DeborahJane]

Oh Serena, so sorry to hear you are going through it at the moment. Some time away will do you the world of good. I can't say any more than what everyone else has already said... I just hope things get better soon for you, here is a big hug... :bighug: x

 

[trinab]

Talking of Shopping....u know I have a thing for polka dots at the moment? I saw the most Vintage Dress today, it was Navy Blue with what looked like tiny red polka dots, as I got closer they were actually ladybirds! OMG it was amazing, obviously they only had one in stock so I promptly tried it on and it fitted so I treated myself I didn't realise it but the brand is a subsidiary of one of my other favourite dress brands! X

And wheres the pic of this gorgeous dress.x

 

[elfy1807]

Talking of Shopping....u know I have a thing for polka dots at the moment? I saw the most Vintage Dress today, it was Navy Blue with what looked like tiny red polka dots, as I got closer they were actually ladybirds! OMG it was amazing, obviously they only had one in stock so I promptly tried it on and it fitted so I treated myself I didn't realise it but the brand is a subsidiary of one of my other favourite dress brands! X

WOW!
Perfect.
Made especially for you.
The angels were looking out for you - sending you a treat during your low point.

 

[UKSerena]

Oh Serena, so sorry to hear you are going through it at the moment. Some time away will do you the world of good. I can't say any more than what everyone else has already said... I just hope things get better soon for you, here is a big hug... :bighug: x

Thanks Deborah Jane, you're a Sweetie. X

And wheres the pic of this gorgeous dress.x

I really should of taken one in the fitting room....! X

WOW!
Perfect.
Made especially for you.
The angels were looking out for you - sending you a treat during your low point.

And they brought me a dress! How kind! X

 

[trinab]

I thort of u the other day in primani wen i saw a pink with black polka dot bikini. It was so u haha.x

 

[UKSerena]

I thort of u the other day in primani wen i saw a pink with black polka dot bikini. It was so u haha.x

Ooooooo Polka Dots are gonna take over the world! X

 

[trinab]

Ooooooo Polka Dots are gonna take over the world! X

Im guna get a polka dot onsie for winter.x

 

[UKSerena]

Hey Sweeties,

I think I've managed to get round all the diaries/threads from the past 24hours, I'm sorry if my responses are a bit shorter than normal but I didn't want to miss anyone out!

I guess I should talk food as that's what WW (and this thread!) is meant to be about!

Sunday was the 1st Day after Meringue-Gate and I coped really well!

Monday I had my Fruit Snack to prevent bad choices and once at the Pub I chose really well, everyone else had Baguettes but I just had a Fried Egg Sandwich but I asked for only 1 egg and no butter/margarine in my bread.
I entered a ballot online for Papa Johns, they were giving away 1000 Pizzas nationwide for 99p instead of £12.99 and I got a code! And here it is...



I had 2 Slices for 10pp and I had some Salad to bulk it out a bit, separately of course! The best 99p I ever spent!

Onto today, I did a silly thing and forgot to take my meds this morning as I was in a hurry to get to an appointment, it meant I ate my Cafe Lunch with no problems but tonight I had no appetite :-( I made myself eat as its not advisable to skip meals so I had this for 6pp...



Not exactly gourmet but at least I ate something!

So 3/5 Days of 26pp only is done! Hoping to do Leslie once it cools down a bit so that will be 3/5 too! X

 

[trinab]

Hey Sweeties,

I think I've managed to get round all the diaries/threads from the past 24hours, I'm sorry if my responses are a bit shorter than normal but I didn't want to miss anyone out!

I guess I should talk food as that's what WW (and this thread!) is meant to be about!

Sunday was the 1st Day after Meringue-Gate and I coped really well!

Monday I had my Fruit Snack to prevent bad choices and once at the Pub I chose really well, everyone else had Baguettes but I just had a Fried Egg Sandwich but I asked for only 1 egg and no butter/margarine in my bread.
I entered a ballot online for Papa Johns, they were giving away 1000 Pizzas nationwide for 99p instead of £12.99 and I got a code! And here it is...

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I had 2 Slices for 10pp and I had some Salad to bulk it out a bit, separately of course! The best 99p I ever spent!

Onto today, I did a silly thing and forgot to take my meds this morning as I was in a hurry to get to an appointment, it meant I ate my Cafe Lunch with no problems but tonight I had no appetite :-( I made myself eat as its not advisable to skip meals so I had this for 6pp...

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Not exactly gourmet but at least I ate something!

So 3/5 Days of 26pp only is done! Hoping to do Leslie once it cools down a bit so that will be 3/5 too! X

You get the best bargins eva. I bet that pizza tasted even better coz it was 99p!! Glad u had sumthing to eat 2. Well done for the cafe i love baguettes dont no if i could of resisted.x

 

[UKSerena]

You get the best bargins eva. I bet that pizza tasted even better coz it was 99p!! Glad u had sumthing to eat 2. Well done for the cafe i love baguettes dont no if i could of resisted.x

I don't know what was better, the fact it was 99p or the fact I managed to stop at 2 Slices! Do u know that when I was at my heaviest I used to eat a 10 Slice Pizza and still be hungry! X