Foo Fan
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Some of u may have seen a previous post but me and my OH are kind of on a break at the moment... We've been together 14 months and moved in together in oct - however a couple of weeks ago he said he wasn't sure if he wants to be with me anymore because he doesn't think he could tell his 10 year old son about me.. He was also with his ex 12 years and we got together very soon after they split so hes getting cold feet about being in another long term relationship..
So I moved out - he asked me to give him some space to work out what he wants.. That was nearly 3 weeks ago...
He still doesn't know if he wants to be with me but keeps saying he'll regret it if we break up.. I know he loves me and he's suffering with a bit of depression at the moment and it trying to deal with that on top of everything else...
I just don't know what to do - I'm so sad all the time.. I'm now living at my brothers in his spare room and I haven't left the house in days apart from going to work..
Any advice or an outsiders point of view?
So I moved out - he asked me to give him some space to work out what he wants.. That was nearly 3 weeks ago...
He still doesn't know if he wants to be with me but keeps saying he'll regret it if we break up.. I know he loves me and he's suffering with a bit of depression at the moment and it trying to deal with that on top of everything else...
I just don't know what to do - I'm so sad all the time.. I'm now living at my brothers in his spare room and I haven't left the house in days apart from going to work..
Any advice or an outsiders point of view?