:sigh: Hi all
I joined before I cant remeber when. But I want to restart my exante total solutions.
But I dont know if its just me that feels this way but I feel scared.. I dont Know how to describe it. but ill try to explain what I feel..
I want to start because IM SICK AND TIRED OF BEING ME! tired of the way people treat and talk to me just because of the way I look.
I dont know why but when I feel I want this sooo much I have this other feeling or side to me that says you wont be able to eat after this, what you going to do when others are eating around you in family events? your not gonna be able to stick to it...is anything going to work for you?....I want a focus and the thing is I havnt got anything to focus on..no boyfriend, no kids, no career. its like everyday is repeated over and over again like groundhog. that is when I actually go out and step outside the door and people are staring at me, or sniggering at me, thinking how fat she is..
the thing is when i started it before i pushed myself and the reason i stopped because i was going out and i heard comments shes not fat shes obese...lose weight fast...why would anyone want to be with her...omg look how fat she is. and when i hear these things i cant say anything or do anything because they would only embarass you more. and then this makes my self confidence go down and i say yes they are right look how fat i am , i tell myself i am pathetic and useless.. I dont eat when i go out and i dont go in public places, i only wear black all the time, and i feel at 29 my life is just passing me buy and i havent lived it yet, and i want to feel alive...i see other women the same size of me and they have husbands or boyfriends with them and i think, why cant i have someone who will love me , u know just a partner you can actually spend time with, what is so wrong with me. i hope im making sense..and im sorry if im not making sense.
but am i the only one who feels this way??
that why i cant start this but i really need to and most importantly want to. i want to prove to myself and others that i can do this. :wave_cry:
I joined before I cant remeber when. But I want to restart my exante total solutions.
But I dont know if its just me that feels this way but I feel scared.. I dont Know how to describe it. but ill try to explain what I feel..
I want to start because IM SICK AND TIRED OF BEING ME! tired of the way people treat and talk to me just because of the way I look.
I dont know why but when I feel I want this sooo much I have this other feeling or side to me that says you wont be able to eat after this, what you going to do when others are eating around you in family events? your not gonna be able to stick to it...is anything going to work for you?....I want a focus and the thing is I havnt got anything to focus on..no boyfriend, no kids, no career. its like everyday is repeated over and over again like groundhog. that is when I actually go out and step outside the door and people are staring at me, or sniggering at me, thinking how fat she is..
the thing is when i started it before i pushed myself and the reason i stopped because i was going out and i heard comments shes not fat shes obese...lose weight fast...why would anyone want to be with her...omg look how fat she is. and when i hear these things i cant say anything or do anything because they would only embarass you more. and then this makes my self confidence go down and i say yes they are right look how fat i am , i tell myself i am pathetic and useless.. I dont eat when i go out and i dont go in public places, i only wear black all the time, and i feel at 29 my life is just passing me buy and i havent lived it yet, and i want to feel alive...i see other women the same size of me and they have husbands or boyfriends with them and i think, why cant i have someone who will love me , u know just a partner you can actually spend time with, what is so wrong with me. i hope im making sense..and im sorry if im not making sense.
but am i the only one who feels this way??
that why i cant start this but i really need to and most importantly want to. i want to prove to myself and others that i can do this. :wave_cry: