Kandy gastric bypass diary before and after(ish) piccies!

[kandy]

Thank you Caroline Thank you Abz your very kind x
Good luck with your journeys !

Apologies for my absence.
Quick explanation is marriage is in tatters, suicide attempt and then marriage is being worked on obviously a very rough idea but cant say too much on here i am currently in a trust nobody phase of my life and i feel i always will be .

Anyway back to my bypass all seems ok i did abuse myself a little the last few weeks lotsa alcohol lotsa coffee no food no sleep etc.
I wouldnt recommend it i look awful like im starving to death not pretty !
This week i have been eating again and eating well no alcohol plenty of fresh air and even went swimming this afternoon it was good !
Looking tonnes healthier and feel better if not a little fragile but thats a mental thing getting stronger by the day ! x

Friday
Breakfast - cheese,ham,sweetcorn wrap
Lunch - tuna sweetcorn,cheese french stick
Dinner - cornflakes with s sk milk yummy
Snacks - pkt crisps,pkt healthy bakes,tracker bar, feast lolly
Drinks - water,coffee, bitter lemon (diet)

Went swimming swam solidly for 1 hr feel fab probably wont be able to walk tomorrow lol !
Much love to all Jules xxx
Vitamins

 

[westiegirl]

((((((Hugs)))))))

Sorry life is hard for you at the moment but I am pleased to see you taking positive steps to look after your health.

I'm ALWAYS here if you need me

 

[dietingqueen]

Awww Julie,

Lots of (((HUGS))) If ever you feel you want to talk just PM. Don't feel alone.

Lots of love Nas x

 

[Gen]

(((((((((biggest hugs ever))))))))))) hope all gets better soon hun

lots of love xxx

 

[abz]

i can't make my hugs any bigger than the others so you'll just have to imagine that they are "This Big".

sorry things aren't going great for you honey. you are a star and an inspiration and you have much to be proud of. Don't be a stranger.

Abz xx

 

[Nic318]

Hi Jules

Sorry to hear your going through such a tough time hun and glad to see your eating and looking after yourself again are improving. If I can help in anyway just shout.

Nic xxx

 

[kandy]

((((((Hugs)))))))

Sorry life is hard for you at the moment but I am pleased to see you taking positive steps to look after your health.

I'm ALWAYS here if you need me

Thank you Sarah thats so sweet of you and i know your struggling yourself !
Love Julie x

Awww Julie,

Lots of (((HUGS))) If ever you feel you want to talk just PM. Don't feel alone.

Lots of love Nas x

Thank you Nas, Thats lovely of you i should really of come on here earlier instead of bottling everything up and let things get out of hand. Hope your ok hunny love Julie x

(((((((((biggest hugs ever))))))))))) hope all gets better soon hun

lots of love xxx

Thank you Gen, Much appreciated has made me feel that i am not alone . Hope your okay lovely ,love Julie xxx

i can't make my hugs any bigger than the others so you'll just have to imagine that they are "This Big".

sorry things aren't going great for you honey. you are a star and an inspiration and you have much to be proud of. Don't be a stranger.

Abz xx

Thank you Abz, I truly underestimated how much changing my outer self has affected my inner self it has turned my world upside down i just hope the outcome is a positive one . Take care love Julie xxx

Hi Jules

Sorry to hear your going through such a tough time hun and glad to see your eating and looking after yourself again are improving. If I can help in anyway just shout.

Nic xxx

Thank you Nic , Thats lovely of you hunny i am overwhelemd by all your support it has helped more than you know , Love Julie xxx

 

[Gen]

Oh my god Julie have you really lost 123 lbs???? just saw ur ticker there and had to do a double take!!!

You are absolutely amazing... well done girl!

I reckon you will get your positive outcome

lots of love

Gen xxx

ps... all good with me... i'm tired after a hectic weekend but was great fun

 

[kandy]

Hi Gen,
I have lost 125 now but it dont look good i cant seem to eat or sleep right now . My hubby is moving out tomorrow and everything is crazy i am trying to stay strong for the kids but its hard going . Need to keep my strength up but feel sick all the time. I feel it's all for the best but it's hard that's all. Sorry for whining feel a bit pants !
Glad your okay hunny much love Jules xxx
Sorry no food diaries as nothing to put on them !

 

[Gen]

Oh sweetie I am so sorry you are feeling bad... I'm actually upset about that.. you are such a lovely person and I truly hope it all works out for you.

PM me hunny if you want to chat or whatever.

Lots of love and hugs

Gen xxxxxx

 

[renners]

Hi Julie, my first post on here will be having the op myself in 3-4 months time so thought would see what is involved and how it has effected people.I just read your story in full it is an inspirational journey.
I hope all goes well with you and your hubby and you manage to work things out.

Best Wishes
Paul

 

[westiegirl]

Hun, I'm very worried about you not eating. I know that at such a stressful time that it will be the last thing on your mind but please tell me that you are trying to eat and are still taking your vits.

I noticed that your ticker is below target and dropping. Be careful and if it drops more will you please your doctor?

Sending you ((((hugs)))).

 

[Nic318]

Oh Jules

What a bad time it is for you. Wish I could make things better for you but anytime I can do anything just shout xxx

 

[icemoose]

Hello you

Hope you are having a bright weekend.

If you aren't eating at all then PLEASE pop along and see the GP and ask for his/her advice and help as most important is your health and safety in all of this.

Anything I can do then mail me directly or pop round for a brew!

Mike

 

[DQ]

Oh Kandy, you know I totally understand, and am here for you if you need - just drop me a PM if you ever wanna chat honey :hug99:

 

[dietingqueen]

Hi Hun,

Pm'd you!!! Thinking of you.... take care of yourself please!

Nas x

 

[kandy]

Hi everyone ,
Sorry been awol. Food situation has improved i am eating well now everything seems to be ok . Ending the marriage is tough and awkward things are very up and down at the moment and emotional which is all very usual i guess.
Thanks for the support guys sorry i havent replied to everyone but time is limited for me but you are all great will be back soon i promise much love XXX

 

[wannabeminime]

Glad to hear you're taking care of yourself Kandy, i hope things work out as you hope. Hugs xx

 

[Nic318]

Sending you lots of hugs hun hope things work out soon and settle down for you, you will get through it xxxxxxx

 

[westiegirl]

Glad things are a little better. Just keep us updated when you can