Mini crazy cat lady
Not sure if i'm about to do something really quite stupid! It's been bothering me for weeks that my ex's parents don't know about his cheating ways, and that he is currently living with her. I've been mulling over in my head for ages how to go about telling them. I wish i was brave enough to go and see them, but i'll get really upset, as i was fond of them, which won't help the situation. So i've decided to write a letter, well, more of a short note. It's written now, it's to the point, no nasty-ness, just facts, and a thank you for all they have done for me over the years. But have i got the guts to send it? I know it will hurt them to find out, but it hurts me more to think of them being lied to by their son, and that one day, he will take her round to see them, and lie to them again about how she came about. It's almost like the final nail in the coffin. I chose a letter as I know that when I receive one, I take it more seriously than an email or a text or something. Would prefer to do it face to face, but i'm soft, and me getting upset would detract from what I was saying, and only encourage sympathy or in many ways pity towards me, which I do not want.