Caz
Repeat Offender
It'll probably come as no surprise that this post is about a guy! haha Anyway, there's this guy who I've been chatting to on facebook for a while then moved to text, he's a friend of a friend, can't really remember how we got chatting.
Anyway, he says that he's interested in me and wants to meet up next week. He seems like a really lovely guy and as much as you can know before you've met someone in person, think I'm interested too. But the thing is, even though I like him, I don't really want to meet up! I just keep thinking that we'll meet up, he'll see me and be like oh... you weren't what I was expecting. Yes I've got pictures on facebook, but I'm very picky and quick to untag! So I feel like they do me too much justice. I don't think people would realise how fat I am just from them.
I just don't know what to do! Part of me thinks I should put it off for a while until I've lost more. But then at the same time, I'm not sure that I would want to be with a guy that is only with me because I've lost weight and wouldn't have been before, if that makes sense!
He is a really lovely guy so I just don't know. From looking at facebook pictures, it seems like he used to be a bigger guy though not sure as overweight as me! And that he's lost the weight. So part of me thinks, well maybe he'd understand but then I know that that isn't always the case.
Anyway, he says that he's interested in me and wants to meet up next week. He seems like a really lovely guy and as much as you can know before you've met someone in person, think I'm interested too. But the thing is, even though I like him, I don't really want to meet up! I just keep thinking that we'll meet up, he'll see me and be like oh... you weren't what I was expecting. Yes I've got pictures on facebook, but I'm very picky and quick to untag! So I feel like they do me too much justice. I don't think people would realise how fat I am just from them.
I just don't know what to do! Part of me thinks I should put it off for a while until I've lost more. But then at the same time, I'm not sure that I would want to be with a guy that is only with me because I've lost weight and wouldn't have been before, if that makes sense!
He is a really lovely guy so I just don't know. From looking at facebook pictures, it seems like he used to be a bigger guy though not sure as overweight as me! And that he's lost the weight. So part of me thinks, well maybe he'd understand but then I know that that isn't always the case.