gemma1985
Silver Member
So I have been on SW for a longgg time now and have more or less maintained my weight for the last 5/6 years, albeit this up and down 7lb or so. Anyway since booking our holiday I have really cracked down in an effort to shift a dress size and it's just causing no end of arguements. He moaned even when I was maintaining - but usually I would be more relaxed on weekends and such but now I'm keeping a food diary so writing down everything I eat and trying to be good on weekends (my total fall down).
So we tend to go shopping together and I will plan what I'm going to cook over the weekend (we don't live together but spend all weekends together) it's all food he likes etc but I'm just getting so upset by the hurtful comments, don't get me wrong I'm not over weight I just want to get back to original target so I feel confident in myself in my bikini!
I'm getting told I'm obsessed, I have a problem, I look awful now and looked better before, I'm ruining the weekends because I'm watching what I eat etc etc
I'm getting sooo angry about this, I know he is concious of his own weight and I have sat down and talked to him about it even tried explaining the diet to him and he likes the meals I make!! suggesting we go on bike rides together etc but he just can't stick to it and I know it's his insecurities plaguing him and I've said this to him and discussed how he feels but it does no good the comments keep coming and I just can't help but feel if he's being this spiteful/unsupportive about this what have I got to look forward to. Feel so fed up :cry:
So we tend to go shopping together and I will plan what I'm going to cook over the weekend (we don't live together but spend all weekends together) it's all food he likes etc but I'm just getting so upset by the hurtful comments, don't get me wrong I'm not over weight I just want to get back to original target so I feel confident in myself in my bikini!
I'm getting told I'm obsessed, I have a problem, I look awful now and looked better before, I'm ruining the weekends because I'm watching what I eat etc etc
I'm getting sooo angry about this, I know he is concious of his own weight and I have sat down and talked to him about it even tried explaining the diet to him and he likes the meals I make!! suggesting we go on bike rides together etc but he just can't stick to it and I know it's his insecurities plaguing him and I've said this to him and discussed how he feels but it does no good the comments keep coming and I just can't help but feel if he's being this spiteful/unsupportive about this what have I got to look forward to. Feel so fed up :cry: