IslandBreeze
Castaway
I saw my MIL for the first time in months today. In that time I've lost 4 stone and gone from a size 20 to a size 14. what does she say to me? " Have you lost a tiny bit of weight? Or is it just that top makes you look a little bit slimmer?"
I'm sure she means well but it's made me feel like I don't look any different after losing all this weight. I'm telling myself that I KNOW i have lost weight and look better and that other people have been very complimentary but it's still wound me up a bit. She is a nice person so she wouldnt have said it to hurt me. Which makes me think she really can't see much difference so maybe I don't really look much difference. Which would be depressing after all this effort..Anyone else found that other people don't seem to realise how much you've lost? how does it make you feel?
I'm sure she means well but it's made me feel like I don't look any different after losing all this weight. I'm telling myself that I KNOW i have lost weight and look better and that other people have been very complimentary but it's still wound me up a bit. She is a nice person so she wouldnt have said it to hurt me. Which makes me think she really can't see much difference so maybe I don't really look much difference. Which would be depressing after all this effort..Anyone else found that other people don't seem to realise how much you've lost? how does it make you feel?