Hun that is rubbish, maybe it is time to find another group. Our consultant even claps weight gain, by telling people how much has been lost despite a small gain and congrats for coming to class and facing up to it and telling everyone what they're going to do this week to get a good result and to spur them on to do it.
A girl at our class comes with her mum and she was obviously really upset, she looks about 19 and she'd had lots of chocolate and had a gain, she wasn't made to feel bad or silly or greedy, she was applauded for coming, applauded for supporting her mum and applauded for making an extra big effort next week now she knows what her foodie pitfalls are, then she moved swiftly on so the girl didn't feel bad and like everyone was focussed on her.
I travel about 45 minutes out of my way to get to my class, and it's worth it for the good consultant.