lol no im the loser magnet, my ex is a lovely guy but he cheated and i couldnt accept that. he was honest about it, he had been on a trip back home to see his family and told me he had accidently slept with his ex. this was 18 months ago.Ah yes.... the loser magnet. I had (?have) one of those too! Mind you I am now (thanks to Baggage Reclaim) much more aware of how I have previously ignored "red flags"; if i'd taken heed of them with my ex I would have saved myself 3 years of hassle!
when he told me it was an accident i did say to him unless he tripped and landed dick first in her pussy then it was no damn accidentAh Claire hon.... accidently? What ... .did he slip and fall and just happen to land in her? He chose to sleep with her meaning while he is no mass murderer make no excuses to yourself about this aspect of his behaviour. His behaviour in this case is about him; your responsibility is in why you are not holding him fully accountable for it (yes you may have barred him from your home but you are clearly very still emotionally involved with him) xx