xSinead
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REALLY hope i don't offend anyone by this thread, its just my opinion..
About a year ago a family friend of ours had a gastric bypass, she was around 26 stone to start with, quite short so she looked very very big, she struggled to walk, she was a hairdresser but had to quit her job because she couldn't stand for that long anymore.. i hadn't seen or heard of her for agesss until one day i was walking passed a new hairdressers in town, and i saw her! I had to double look though because she looked so tiny. I went in straight away and asked her how she was and told her how amazing she looked! She told me she had a gastric bypass and was now 14 stone (she looked smaller than that but i guess she carries it well).. She told me i should ask to see a specialist and see if i could get surgery too! Of course the following day, i rang and i went to the doctors asking for a gastric bypass, he weighed me and said he would refer me to a specialist but was very doubtful that i'd be succsesful.. i went along to the specialist appointment SO excited, i kept telling myself wow they're going to offer me surgery and within months i'll be skinny and it'll be so easy. I got to the hospital where i met with the specialist, she asked me to sit on this bench/chair thing where they weighed me.. as i got up she looked at me and almost laughed 'ok well i'll tell you right away that we won't be offering you any form of surgery as you're only 21 stone' the tears immediately streamed down my face. How could she be so blunt with me? Was it because i had make up on and looked presentable and girly where as alot of the other people there didn't make as much effort? I was so heart broken, i felt like nobody was going to help me.. i blamed everyone!!
I didn't bother going back to the doctors after that, i didn't try asking to be sent to another specialist, i couldn't face being turned down again. Instead for about a year i carried on how i was, until March this year. I decided to take matters into my own hands and start Cambridge again.. 12 weeks on and i'm 17 stone! My attitude to everything especially food is SO different. I see food as evil, when i watch my partner eat my old favourites like pasta and pizza, i can't help but feel sick, yet proud at the fact i'm not eating it. I'm SO SO SO glad from the bottom of my heart that i didn't get a gastric bypass because i may of had my stomach stapled or unable to eat as much as i used to, but my attitude wouldn't of changed, physically my stomach would of, but my mind would still want pasta, pizza, cakes etc. I still see my friend, she looks around 15/16 stone now, i see her in greggs buying cakes, i see her in costa coffee buying pastries.. she may of got very expensive surgery for free on the Nhs, but what a waste as she's clearly not changed her eating habits.
So yeah, i'm very proud of myself that by christmas i WILL be at my goal weight and when people ask me how i did it, because they will.. I can smile and say 'I did it all by myself'
About a year ago a family friend of ours had a gastric bypass, she was around 26 stone to start with, quite short so she looked very very big, she struggled to walk, she was a hairdresser but had to quit her job because she couldn't stand for that long anymore.. i hadn't seen or heard of her for agesss until one day i was walking passed a new hairdressers in town, and i saw her! I had to double look though because she looked so tiny. I went in straight away and asked her how she was and told her how amazing she looked! She told me she had a gastric bypass and was now 14 stone (she looked smaller than that but i guess she carries it well).. She told me i should ask to see a specialist and see if i could get surgery too! Of course the following day, i rang and i went to the doctors asking for a gastric bypass, he weighed me and said he would refer me to a specialist but was very doubtful that i'd be succsesful.. i went along to the specialist appointment SO excited, i kept telling myself wow they're going to offer me surgery and within months i'll be skinny and it'll be so easy. I got to the hospital where i met with the specialist, she asked me to sit on this bench/chair thing where they weighed me.. as i got up she looked at me and almost laughed 'ok well i'll tell you right away that we won't be offering you any form of surgery as you're only 21 stone' the tears immediately streamed down my face. How could she be so blunt with me? Was it because i had make up on and looked presentable and girly where as alot of the other people there didn't make as much effort? I was so heart broken, i felt like nobody was going to help me.. i blamed everyone!!
I didn't bother going back to the doctors after that, i didn't try asking to be sent to another specialist, i couldn't face being turned down again. Instead for about a year i carried on how i was, until March this year. I decided to take matters into my own hands and start Cambridge again.. 12 weeks on and i'm 17 stone! My attitude to everything especially food is SO different. I see food as evil, when i watch my partner eat my old favourites like pasta and pizza, i can't help but feel sick, yet proud at the fact i'm not eating it. I'm SO SO SO glad from the bottom of my heart that i didn't get a gastric bypass because i may of had my stomach stapled or unable to eat as much as i used to, but my attitude wouldn't of changed, physically my stomach would of, but my mind would still want pasta, pizza, cakes etc. I still see my friend, she looks around 15/16 stone now, i see her in greggs buying cakes, i see her in costa coffee buying pastries.. she may of got very expensive surgery for free on the Nhs, but what a waste as she's clearly not changed her eating habits.
So yeah, i'm very proud of myself that by christmas i WILL be at my goal weight and when people ask me how i did it, because they will.. I can smile and say 'I did it all by myself'