gonabslim79
Full Member
I have been with my fella for 3 yrs now. all is sweet. he has 2 kids that live far away that he doesnt get to see that much. i have expressed my great need to have a child my self and he says that he wants one too, so we are planning on trying in a few months.
well one of my friends has recently had a baby which a group of us went to see today. one the the blokes in the group was all over the new born picking her up and feeding her and walking around. my fella decides to move himself away from the group and entertain the other kids. I later went to make sure he was ok, and he went off on one saying that the other guy (who happens to be his mate) was trying to get the best dad award and he doesnt need to pick up someone elses kid to prove hes a good dad. and that he cant stand babies so why should he have to sit around talking about them! he also then decided that he didnt have anything in common with the group so couldnt sit and chat with everyone!! he also feels alot older (he is 9 yrs older than me) thus everyone else as they are my friends.
My point is we are home and hes acting all normal. and i am really angry firstly cos after 3 yrs hes decided he cant talk to my friends and secondly he said 'he cant stand babies!'
what do you think that means? he is fantastic with kids. my 2 yr old niece adores him. and he is great with his own.
is he having 2nd thoughts about our child?
and why now does he think he cant talk to my friends!! we a socialble grooup and i am now thinking i shouldnt bring him along.
I will discuss this with him but just want other opinions.
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well one of my friends has recently had a baby which a group of us went to see today. one the the blokes in the group was all over the new born picking her up and feeding her and walking around. my fella decides to move himself away from the group and entertain the other kids. I later went to make sure he was ok, and he went off on one saying that the other guy (who happens to be his mate) was trying to get the best dad award and he doesnt need to pick up someone elses kid to prove hes a good dad. and that he cant stand babies so why should he have to sit around talking about them! he also then decided that he didnt have anything in common with the group so couldnt sit and chat with everyone!! he also feels alot older (he is 9 yrs older than me) thus everyone else as they are my friends.
My point is we are home and hes acting all normal. and i am really angry firstly cos after 3 yrs hes decided he cant talk to my friends and secondly he said 'he cant stand babies!'
what do you think that means? he is fantastic with kids. my 2 yr old niece adores him. and he is great with his own.
is he having 2nd thoughts about our child?
and why now does he think he cant talk to my friends!! we a socialble grooup and i am now thinking i shouldnt bring him along.
I will discuss this with him but just want other opinions.
x