devilishandsweet
100% all the way!
Right the long and short of it is that my dad has multiple scerosis............and my mum wanted me and hubby to go on hols this year with them, coz she is not sure she will be able to abroad after this hols as dad will get worse.
Without goin into too much..........I met my husband who had divorced. He lived in a council flat, and had basically nothing! He had gone bankrupt and still cant get credit. I married him 3 years ago.
I earn about 36k a year and he earns about 22k. Thats not the problem........Since we been together I have a new BMW, which I pay for....and last year I had to get a mortage on my own (because he can't get credit) and I pay for that. He is constanly going through my purse taking money that I haven't said he can have. Our bills come to about £1700 a month and together we earn about £3400 a month, but I NEVER have any money left! When I look through my bank statement ( he gets paid into my account) I find nearly £1000 worth of transactions a month I can't account for!?
Im 25 and he is 40 and I feel he is living off of me! I do nearly 60 hours a week and he only does 37 and NEVER does overtime!
The other day he wanted some beers and I had to pay for them..............when I told him he couldn't have some the next day he said 'You have your cambridge!' Er hello I earn £1000 more than you, and I'm doing something about my weight!
Anyway back to the subject....holiday to egypt.............we owe my mum £520 each to pay for hols....and me and hubby had a agreement that we would pay for ourselves. I have paid £520 to my mum and he hasn't paid a penny!
He will NEVER have enough money to pay it by the 18th August (when hols needs to be paid) and 'I' will end up paying!
What shall I do.....Pay it......or say if u don't pay don't go?
Like I said I have no issue with me earning more money but I work loads of hours to earn what I do and I don't see why I should pay for him?!
Advice please peeps? .....
Sorry for banging on! xxxxx
Without goin into too much..........I met my husband who had divorced. He lived in a council flat, and had basically nothing! He had gone bankrupt and still cant get credit. I married him 3 years ago.
I earn about 36k a year and he earns about 22k. Thats not the problem........Since we been together I have a new BMW, which I pay for....and last year I had to get a mortage on my own (because he can't get credit) and I pay for that. He is constanly going through my purse taking money that I haven't said he can have. Our bills come to about £1700 a month and together we earn about £3400 a month, but I NEVER have any money left! When I look through my bank statement ( he gets paid into my account) I find nearly £1000 worth of transactions a month I can't account for!?
Im 25 and he is 40 and I feel he is living off of me! I do nearly 60 hours a week and he only does 37 and NEVER does overtime!
The other day he wanted some beers and I had to pay for them..............when I told him he couldn't have some the next day he said 'You have your cambridge!' Er hello I earn £1000 more than you, and I'm doing something about my weight!
Anyway back to the subject....holiday to egypt.............we owe my mum £520 each to pay for hols....and me and hubby had a agreement that we would pay for ourselves. I have paid £520 to my mum and he hasn't paid a penny!
He will NEVER have enough money to pay it by the 18th August (when hols needs to be paid) and 'I' will end up paying!
What shall I do.....Pay it......or say if u don't pay don't go?
Like I said I have no issue with me earning more money but I work loads of hours to earn what I do and I don't see why I should pay for him?!
Advice please peeps? .....
Sorry for banging on! xxxxx