Emotional affair, I guess, is just where a relationship has gone beyond friendship, but isn't physical. I guess it's another thing of well what would you class as it.
Can I just say, I'm not asking for any reason to do with me! I just realised it might seem like I was, but no, I just had this conversation with someone earlier and thought it was interesting. We were saying we thought it depended on the woman, the people we say stick with it are often, not always, people with confidence problems. Whether they don't have the confidence to say get out, or think they can't do better, I don't know. It isn't always like that though I'm sure! I just know one girl whose boyfriend has cheated on her so many times over the past few years, and she knows about them, he's rubbed them in her face a lot of the time, but yet she stays with him. I don't understand it! Really don't.
Ok, I've got an example of the emotional type thing. And I can't believe I'm about to tell you this, it now seems pretty embarrassing! I had a friend who we didn't meet up much, well, ever. But spoke, a lot. It didn't start that way, would be the odd text or conversation on msn or quick hi on the phone, and then got more and more regular. To the point where we were talking quite a lot, was obviously attracted to each other, and just I dunno. We'd text all day, talk all evening, often until I fell asleep! ha We didn't do anything, ever, but I can see how it was beyond just a normal friendship.
He then admitted to me that he was married, but never wears a ring because he doesn't see himself as married or taken. But that it was a complicated situation, they were married, not together, should never have got married. I believed that. A few months later, after it carried on like that, his 'wife' contacted me, wanted to know exactly what was going on. Said they were together. I assured her nothing had happened, but she was telling me that an emotional affair for her is just as bad as a real one.
It turns out that they weren't still together. And that it was her being a jealous ex. But I think it's still maybe a way of explaining to me what the whole emotional affair is. But maybe it hasn't to you guys! I don't know. I don't even know why I'm telling you, it's embarrassing! lol
It made me think actually. I'd never really thought of the whole emotional affair thing. But actually, I can see why it's just as bad, if not worse.