abz
Gold Member
see? interfering busybody, ha. and i am by no means angelic. i really struggle. but it sounds like you've thought it out so good on you
it also really really helps with the guilt factor afterwards. if you know you've given it proper consideration then there is no need to feel bad afterwards (as i always do) because you've done what you intended to do in the first place. good eh? 
abz xx
abz xx