got2gethealthy!x
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Hi, can any of you tell me if this is something that happens often or just what my husband does!?!
My husband is very supportive of my diet, or so he says! I do know he wants me to be happy and wants a family which means me loosing weight. We have had lots of talks about CDC and how it works etc - ie no food on SS etc. and that i could do with him not offering me any food, eating nice things infront of me etc.
when i started i told him i wouldnt be able to do it if he didnt support and help me stick to it and not try and talk me into 'just a little bit' of something.
The first few days are usually ok but then he starts to say, oh well that wont hurt will it? would you like some of this? or go on just have a small bit! And he even comes home from the shop with treats for doing so well!!
I know i am a grown woman and can make my own decisions but it is so hard when he says would you like abit - in my head im thinking YES i would like abit but NO i cant have it BUT i WANT it so im going to have it! Id much rather he didnt offer or even talk about it!
Am i being mean to my husband or should i have yet another argument about what it means to be supportive??
Lisa x
My husband is very supportive of my diet, or so he says! I do know he wants me to be happy and wants a family which means me loosing weight. We have had lots of talks about CDC and how it works etc - ie no food on SS etc. and that i could do with him not offering me any food, eating nice things infront of me etc.
when i started i told him i wouldnt be able to do it if he didnt support and help me stick to it and not try and talk me into 'just a little bit' of something.
The first few days are usually ok but then he starts to say, oh well that wont hurt will it? would you like some of this? or go on just have a small bit! And he even comes home from the shop with treats for doing so well!!
I know i am a grown woman and can make my own decisions but it is so hard when he says would you like abit - in my head im thinking YES i would like abit but NO i cant have it BUT i WANT it so im going to have it! Id much rather he didnt offer or even talk about it!
Am i being mean to my husband or should i have yet another argument about what it means to be supportive??
Lisa x