delleh
Full Member
I have decided that on Tuesday I am rejoining a Slimming World group different to the one that I am going to.
This is a decision based that my circumstances have changed work wise and cannot give up Tuesday Mornings every week, but I will be rejoining at a Tuesday class at 5pm.
The class I'm joining is the Area Manager of the person I go to now.
If she asks why I'm going to her instead, then I'm going to say its due to work, but its not just due to work.
SO....can I ask a few questions about what goes off in people's groups.
A lot of the time we do "Image Therapy" and its a case of well done on your loss, or "you've had a bad week do you know why" because its such a big group we dont always get the 100% support we might need.
If its due to working loads and trying to have "snacks" in the car or grabs-and-go we get "but we're all in the same boat"
And when I put 1lb on (after doing SAS for 2 week first week i lost 2.5lbs) I just got told "I cant see or understand why you've gained...just dont have as many syns" (i was having 5-7 a day)
We get told when we've gained as a group and what we've lost as a group, and sometimes if you know you've put on and then the group gets "told off" for putting on weight, you feel like pants!
I think its the best decision for me to change group. And after speaking with a few girls who go to my current group then they are looking or others, feeling like they've lost their way, and then not getting support.
I cant believe that theres such a difference in leaders to leaders
What are your groups like!?
This is a decision based that my circumstances have changed work wise and cannot give up Tuesday Mornings every week, but I will be rejoining at a Tuesday class at 5pm.
The class I'm joining is the Area Manager of the person I go to now.
If she asks why I'm going to her instead, then I'm going to say its due to work, but its not just due to work.
SO....can I ask a few questions about what goes off in people's groups.
A lot of the time we do "Image Therapy" and its a case of well done on your loss, or "you've had a bad week do you know why" because its such a big group we dont always get the 100% support we might need.
If its due to working loads and trying to have "snacks" in the car or grabs-and-go we get "but we're all in the same boat"
And when I put 1lb on (after doing SAS for 2 week first week i lost 2.5lbs) I just got told "I cant see or understand why you've gained...just dont have as many syns" (i was having 5-7 a day)
We get told when we've gained as a group and what we've lost as a group, and sometimes if you know you've put on and then the group gets "told off" for putting on weight, you feel like pants!
I think its the best decision for me to change group. And after speaking with a few girls who go to my current group then they are looking or others, feeling like they've lost their way, and then not getting support.
I cant believe that theres such a difference in leaders to leaders
What are your groups like!?