Noor30
Silver Member
Hi Noor
I am so sorry about your brothers illnesses that can't be easy for the family especially your mother. I know your culture is different from mine and you treat your parents with a lot more respect. I feel you can only have respect for a person when they deserve it.
My father used to put me down all the time, not about my weight but about my ambition to teach deaf children, he always said I was not clever enough to get a degree. Well I now have a masters degree and I taught deaf children for a very happy 28 years. Funnily enough my father was the one who was so proud of my achievements.
Do not let anyone put you off your goal of achieving the figure you want.
You have been very brave to text your father. You are a strong person and you will achieve all you want to if you have enough will to succeed. There are lots of people on this forum with their own problems but there is a strong spirit of community as we are all striving for the same goal.
Keep on posting and reading and mainly keep on doing what you are doing just now, You can do it. x
Mere x
PS congratulations on your weight loss![]()
You have done amazingly well Mere, you had the courage to prove him wrong and in the end like u said he was happy for u!