SexyBecks1
is loving CWP xx
Just thought I would share this with you.
I was talking to a guy at work today who knows that I am doing LL and has done it himself in the past (and gained it all back). I told him that I was back on abstinece and he asked me why? I said because I want to lose another 2 stone or so but he said that I look fine as I am. so then I said that I wasn't happy with the way I looked plus my BMI is still over 30 and I want it to be 25. He wasn't having any of this and said that I looked good to him. Well, this ladies, is what you need to be aware of. Although it is a compliment, it is also a sabotage attempt in disguise. He might not have said it intentionally but some people may use these kinds of words to stop you from continuing losing the weight etc.
There are 2 things that you can do in this situation. You can either take what they say on board and go for that naughty food still left in the office as you think that he is right and you look ok. OR you can do what I did. I thanked him for the complient and thought to myself 'well if he thinks I look good now, wait until I have lost the rest of the weight!!!'.
Don't bow down to it girls. We need to do what is right for us not what other people think. It is up to us to say when we are where we want to be. Girl Power!! (and man power for any men out there, he he!!!)
I was talking to a guy at work today who knows that I am doing LL and has done it himself in the past (and gained it all back). I told him that I was back on abstinece and he asked me why? I said because I want to lose another 2 stone or so but he said that I look fine as I am. so then I said that I wasn't happy with the way I looked plus my BMI is still over 30 and I want it to be 25. He wasn't having any of this and said that I looked good to him. Well, this ladies, is what you need to be aware of. Although it is a compliment, it is also a sabotage attempt in disguise. He might not have said it intentionally but some people may use these kinds of words to stop you from continuing losing the weight etc.
There are 2 things that you can do in this situation. You can either take what they say on board and go for that naughty food still left in the office as you think that he is right and you look ok. OR you can do what I did. I thanked him for the complient and thought to myself 'well if he thinks I look good now, wait until I have lost the rest of the weight!!!'.
Don't bow down to it girls. We need to do what is right for us not what other people think. It is up to us to say when we are where we want to be. Girl Power!! (and man power for any men out there, he he!!!)