Sabotaging my weight loss

Discussion in 'Slimming World' started by kerryb83, 9 March 2014.

  1. kerryb83

    kerryb83 Active Member

    Eeek! Need some support / suggestions. My husband is usually really good and supportive with my weight loss mission. He does most of the cooking and always uses sw or sw friendly recipes but this weekend has gone all wrong.
    We always have a treat tea after weigh-in if I have a loss, usually chinese so I can easily control what I'm eating/ how many syns etc. But then we have had naughty tea on Friday and Saturday night because he wasn't feeling great and my willpower was low so have had crisps and pizza!
    Feel so bad now!
    Sorry, just needed to get it off my chest.

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    Last edited: 9 March 2014
  2. lickthelid

    lickthelid Lives here....

    Wow I wish my husband did most of the cooking!! It sounds like you looked for an excuse to have a naughty dinner ;) don't beat yourself up over it (and certainly not him) because shifting the blame is doing exactly that. If he wasn't up to cooking then fair enough. You had a choice to either cook for yourself surely it to go along with the pizza and you chose the latter. One naughty meal doesn't ruin a week so just get back on the horse. I'm sure it will be fine. Don't let it ruin the rest of your week!! :)
  3. kerryb83

    kerryb83 Active Member

    The reason he does all the cooking is because I do all the other housework, it works well for us. Plus the reason he wasn't feeling great was cause he'd been out drinking till 2 in the morning the night before and I did suggest other stuff as we had buffalo chicken from the SW magazine in the freezer as I had made extras last week.
    It's more me having a vent at myself.
  4. lickthelid

    lickthelid Lives here....

    Ha we all do it!! I personally believe that it's actually a necessary part of it as it reminds us of why we are doing what we are doing.
  5. Jeanne Von Buttonpopper

    Jeanne Von Buttonpopper Reformed biscuit dunker

    I have had the weekend off plan and have eaten so much crap. I have no excuses apart from I have had the week from hell at work and I'm stressed and in need of a holiday. For me, this diet is a long term plan and I get there when I get there. Tomorrow is another day and so I will get back on the horse and carry on. As LTL says, we all do it...
  6. Littleslimmingbee

    Littleslimmingbee Well-Known Member

    Cave girl, I think that was particularly harsh, ... the tone of the post did not imply she was blaming her husband. Support at home is very important and its easier to let your guard down when your support network is down too. - I see you don't follow slimming world, and that you are at your target weight according to your statistics. Perhaps you've forgotten how difficult it can be trying to actually loose it?

    I can understand why you are frustrated with yourself, Kerry. You can pull it back though. Even if it feels like it's all gone to poop! Try not to beat yourself up. You can do this. xx
  7. kerryb83

    kerryb83 Active Member

    Thanks Fern x

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  8. lickthelid

    lickthelid Lives here....

    To be totally fair to cave girl the original title of the post was "husband sabotaging my weight loss" not as it reads now so although the tone might not suggest it the title may was a fair assumption to make based upon that ;)
  9. lentil2

    lentil2 Well-Known Member

    I am sure when I originally read this thread morning the title read ' Husband sabotaging my weight loss' which may explain Cave girls post a little?
    Yes, maybe a little harsh......but true!! ;) My husband doesn't pin me to the floor and stuff food in my mouth, I make that decision!! lol (to stuff food in my mouth, not be pinned to the floor!!)

    Correct me if I am wrong.....I may be mixing it up with something else?
  10. lentil2

    lentil2 Well-Known Member

    ha ha lickthelid.....posting at the same time!!
  11. lickthelid

    lickthelid Lives here....

    oh its great fun. There is another joke here but I'm leaving that. Too easy you see.
  12. beachbabetobe13

    beachbabetobe13 Well-Known Member

    Lol!!!! ;-)

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