As I said on the hair loss thread, some people (not all) have to make a few sacrifices or acceptance of certain unwanted side effects of quick weightloss, or weightloss in general. Saggy skin, hairloss etc. The truth is, if you dont feel good about yourself, you dont have many friends or your life is **** (in your opinion) being thin isnt really going to make any difference to that, thats why you get many people who have once reached their target weight, hoping for the miracle that their lives are suddenly going to be wonderful. You can be just as you are, be that 20stone or 10stone, and still feel incredible, its all about self opinion. If it takes you to lose 10stone before you will get your hair done or wear makeup or wear sexy clothes, so be it, but if you did those things at 20stones, you will feel good about yourself from the start and then your happiness doesnt revolve around being thin. 'the thing you resists, persists' celebrate yourself just as you are, be happy as you are, then you will find it easier and effortless to lose weight, and what more it will stay off.