It is a pretty awful thing to do to a partner

I'd be furious.
Before people get too panicky and think that every bit of spyware means their nearest and dearest are spying on them, I don't really consider pc pandora to be the average spyware program that goes on your computer.
PC pandora is legit and I know parents sometimes use it to track what their children are getting up to.
Spyware can really mess up your computer with pop ups etc and send data back, pc pandora is a little different.
Sure Mike or Pierce can expand
Hugs to you though!