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So...my fiance has left me...

S: 20st2lb C: 19st2lb G: 10st0lb BMI: 44.6 Loss: 1st0lb(4.96%)
Feeling so bad right now, really dunno what to do. I feel like the person I was, who was making all sorts of plans, has died, and I don't even know this person I am left with. Hoping and praying with every fibre of me that he changes his mind and we can work things out. Can't bear feeling like this, have never felt so bad.
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S: 14st4.5lb C: 13st11lb G: 11st0lb BMI: 35.3 Loss: 0st7.5lb(3.74%)
I don't quite know what to say but I didn't want to read and run .... have you argued or has he given you a reason?:(
S: 20st2lb C: 19st2lb G: 10st0lb BMI: 44.6 Loss: 1st0lb(4.96%)
Just lots of fights what ended up in one big stand off and he ended it. The fight that kicked it off was my fault so I blame myself for it ending but at the same time I can't believe he threw everything away so easily. Good for my diet I suppose, my calorie intake is non-existant!
S: 20st2lb C: 19st2lb G: 10st0lb BMI: 44.6 Loss: 1st0lb(4.96%)
Thankyou everyone. The way things stand I can't see much hope of a reconciliation. Was starting to feel so much happier in my life as well, weight loss was going great


Full Member
S: 18st4lb C: 10st10lb G: 11st2lb BMI: 20.9 Loss: 7st8lb(41.41%)
You must feel like the bottom has dropped out of your world. Big hug coming your way.
S: 12st13lb C: 11st1.6lb G: 10st7lb BMI: 25.9 Loss: 1st11.4lb(14.03%)
So sorry darling i know exactly how it feels :( Might sound cliche but time is a healer and you will be able to come back from this.
Thinking of you


To infinity and beyond!
S: 23st7lb C: 15st13.5lb G: 14st7lb BMI: 32.1 Loss: 7st7.5lb(32.07%)
Sorry you are feeling so down, please make sure you are eating and looking after yourself though.

Sending you a hug, hope things work out for you :hug99:


Silver Member
S: 19st12lb C: 14st1.0lb G: 11st0lb BMI: 31.8 Loss: 5st11lb(29.14%)
Big Big hugs....make sure you look after yourself....And however this turns out you will be stronger from the outcome x
S: 26st4lb C: 14st2.0lb G: 12st7.0lb BMI: 30.1 Loss: 12st2lb(46.2%)
Big hugs, you sound like you're having a really tough time. Look after yourself and it's been said before but time is a healer xx


wants a dancer's body.
S: 15st0lb C: 14st0lb G: 8st3lb BMI: 38.3 Loss: 1st0lb(6.67%)
I'm so sorry, it doesn't sound like it was your fault, a lot of build-up was going on and that was the straw, but the straw was coming anyway. Please don't blame yourself, take one day at a time and garner as much support around you as you can. :hug99:

miss bee

Silver Member
S: 20st2lb
sounds like you are having a harsh time:(
big big hugs to you love:hug99:
as has been said before,time will heal,and do make sure you are trying to eat properly.going off food altogether will only store up troubles for you.you need to keep your sugar levels balanced,especially at a time like this,or that will add to you feeling down.
whatever has gone on and how ever much you love him,
when someone can make you feel sooo bad,and if it's happening regularily,believe me they're not worthy of you!
you will be stronger and happier in the end.
good luck to you babe.
hope things work out well for you.xx
S: 20st2lb C: 19st2lb G: 10st0lb BMI: 44.6 Loss: 1st0lb(4.96%)
The thing what is really getting to me is the number of people who, trying to be nice, say "better it happened now than when you got married". At the end of the day, we made promises to each other, planned a life together as a husband and wife, and I've lost that. I've lost the home we would have had, the kids we would have had and I've lost the husband I would have had, doesn't matter to me that we hadn't signed on the dotted line, I have lost my husband.


wants a dancer's body.
S: 15st0lb C: 14st0lb G: 8st3lb BMI: 38.3 Loss: 1st0lb(6.67%)
How are you getting on today? Are you looking after yourself? Have you got some sleep? I am thinking of you and hope you're ok.


will hit target this time
S: 13st2lb C: 13st2lb G: 11st0lb BMI: 29.7 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
big hugs coming your way sweetie, he will realise what a gorgeous lady he has lost and come to his senses!


miss bee

Silver Member
S: 20st2lb
so pleased you are making sure you eat properly.
and it's good that you have spoken to each other.
hopefully you'll be able to sort it out as you say,when things are a bit calmer.
things often look very different when we've had a bit of time to think.
so hope it all works out how you want.
lots of luck to you:)

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