tiffanydiamond
Full Member
Evening everyone, i wonder if there is any-one out there who can offer me some advice. Well positive stuff first, my second week in LL has been fabulous! I have had boundless energy and have been looking forward to weigh in on thursday. Then the sideways body blow comes and knocks me for six, i can't stop crying and feel awful all as a result of my ex partner who's father to my children.
We split up last march and i set up home for myself and my children with very little help from him. We settled in fine and agreed some ground rules ie not involving new partners in the childrens lives until it was completely serious. Actually it worked well and there seemed to be lots of trust and good communication as moved forward in our separate lives for which i was proud of.
Christmas morning he came round and announced he was taking the boys to meet his new girlfriend when he had only known her a couple of weeks. After heated disscusion he gave me his word that he wouldn't and eventually apologised for upsetting me. I found out this evening from my son that he took them out to dinner 2 weeks ago without telling me with his new GF and her children, and i feel so angry as he has gone against all we had agreed on! I feel so let down and that he has totally no respect for me. He has always been an incredibly selfish man and i feel that the situation is out of my control. I'm really hoping that this stress doesn't effect my LL as i have been feeling so strong lately.
So sorry for going on but it kind of helps taking my frustration out on the keyboard! xxx :cry:
We split up last march and i set up home for myself and my children with very little help from him. We settled in fine and agreed some ground rules ie not involving new partners in the childrens lives until it was completely serious. Actually it worked well and there seemed to be lots of trust and good communication as moved forward in our separate lives for which i was proud of.
Christmas morning he came round and announced he was taking the boys to meet his new girlfriend when he had only known her a couple of weeks. After heated disscusion he gave me his word that he wouldn't and eventually apologised for upsetting me. I found out this evening from my son that he took them out to dinner 2 weeks ago without telling me with his new GF and her children, and i feel so angry as he has gone against all we had agreed on! I feel so let down and that he has totally no respect for me. He has always been an incredibly selfish man and i feel that the situation is out of my control. I'm really hoping that this stress doesn't effect my LL as i have been feeling so strong lately.
So sorry for going on but it kind of helps taking my frustration out on the keyboard! xxx :cry: