Aw well done ladies, so many of you doing brilliantly. I lost 3 and a half stone a few years ago and remember the feeling and am finally ready to feel it again. I'm feeling the embarrassment of having to use my gold card at meetings(cos i didnt wanna pay the 20 euro registration). I can feel people looking and wondering what went wrong but I think i'm back on track now and this site is a real winner for motivation. You guys are great! Thanks
pudnpie said:I'm probably going to sound like a right misery but although I am pleased when someone comments on whether I have lost weight I am also a bit sad. Its like you have suddenly become a better person because you are slimmer. Of course it is well meant but really its just an extension of how society judges people - if you have got slim it is good but you wouldn't dream of saying to someone wow you have put on some weight because fat is bad.
I find it to be a bit of a double edged compliment because they clearly thought you needed to lose some weight!