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split with boyfriend - possibly the best diet ever...

sophie_mk

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S: 19st5lb C: 19st5lb G: 16st7lb BMI: 46.5 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
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Aw hun, im sorry to hear that, i know what your going through i left my cheating husband some years ago and was HEARTBROKEN i couldnt eat and felt like i had a permenant lump in my throat, i lost 1 stone in 2 week not reccomended though ! ((((((((hug)))))))))))
 

sophie_mk

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S: 19st5lb C: 19st5lb G: 16st7lb BMI: 46.5 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
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Thank you Hun. I'm trying to be strong but I'm just so scared of being on my own. Can't help but wonder if I was slimmer, would things be different. I'm 2 stone lighter than when we met and he's never given me reason to think it, it's probably my own insecurities beating me up inside....
 
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Aww dont think like that, its better to be on your own than with the wrong person, i know you dont feel like that now, i really do.

DOnt settle for anyhting other than what you believe love should be x
 
S: 13st3lb C: 9st13lb BMI: 21.1 Loss: 3st4lb(24.86%)
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Oh hun I'm so sorry :( *Hugs* there is nothing worse...

My boyfriend broke up with me and broke my heart (broke doesn't even begin to describe it... more like shattered it, jumped on it, set it on fire, then threw it out a window!!) just when I was starting WW. I'm a comfort eater rather than not eating when I'm upset, but WW was honestly the one thing that kept me going. It gave me something to focus on, something I was doing for ME, and something that made me feel better about myself.

Fast forward a year, and I'm over three stone lighter, running regular 10ks and training for a half marathon, and have never felt better mentally or physically. I won't lie, it took me a while to get here, and there were many tough times on the way. But those famous words "that which doesn't kill me can only make me stronger" really are true.

If your boyfriend was too daft to realise what he had with you, it's his loss. You can and you will get through this, and you will come out so much happier and stronger on the other side *big hugs*
 
S: 17st12lb C: 17st8lb G: 10st0lb Loss: 0st4lb(1.6%)
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Awww chick, I'm so sorry to hear that :(. Big *hugs* coming your way!

All I can say, and I know it will be no comfort whatsoever, is that you will come out the other end, and you will be fine. I know it's scary being alone, I really do - but you might just find it's the best thing that ever happened to you.

My fiancee broke off our 2 year engagement and 6 year relationship the week before Christmas last year, and it ripped me apart - I felt exactly the same as you do. However, I've now moved into my own little house, and I'm stronger - and would you believe it happier - than ever.

Don't ever think you're not good enough, or you should have been slimmer for a guy. You have to do everything for you - not him, and if he really was the type of person to judge you on weight alone then was he really the person you want to be with?

I know it hurts right now, but the cliche is true - time really is a healer, and in 6 months you really will look back and realise it was all for the best.

Sending you lots of love :) xxx
 


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