Supportive partner???

[Sp33dybabycakes]

I have been with my fella 10 years ( very long and hard 10years) we are both overweight and he is quite happy with himself, I'm not and haven't been for a long time I decided to do sw and he never stopped me he has been quite supportive which I think is lovely, however he has always said he fancies me whatever I look like but since I've lost weight he is more 'all over' me than normal which I'm ok with don't get me wrong but it also feels he probably wasn't happy with me before has anyone else experienced this?

 

[miss.mooey]

Unfortunately no lol... although my husband has been complimenting me alot.
on my looks and clothes im wearing. Its as if he now 'notices' me.

dont think of it as a negative thing. it could be as simple as because ur feeling better about urself, ur happiness has rubbed off. I do know if hubby come home in a good mood i get a nice smootch and lets not get started on bad moods lol...

 

[Sp33dybabycakes]

Yeah my fella seems to 'notice' me too , maybe I'm thinking to much about it x o yes bad moods lets just say he may as well come in and go straight to bed when he's like that lol

 

[Mrs CC]

I very much doubt he simply he prefers you thinner. You say he's ok with his weight, are you sure? He could be feeling nervous and insecure now you're losing weight you might run off and find someone else, so is doing his best to reassure you. It could also be your own increased confidence as said above. Or maybe he just wants to congratulate you and celebrate with you that you're hard work is paying off. Enjoy it!

 

[Sp33dybabycakes]

Yeah he's fine he's always been happy as he is he knows it's me that's not happy yeah maybe your right

 

[Kath1990]

Indeed .... I wouldn't worry about it ... Plus think of it as extra body magic

 

[Sp33dybabycakes]

Yes that is true.