Suppose it was going to happen sometime !

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  1. sonkie

    sonkie Gold Member

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    Well yesterday was chatting to the woman at school who got me into Lipotrim, the conversation was all about her when someone was asking about the diet and how much I had lost......well I was telling this other mum and I was getting a lot of dirty looks from "the woman".
    Anyway this mum left thinking about possibly doing the diet too. The woman was chatting about herself again, so thought I would say that I had managed to stick to the diet for 10 weeks now, she threw me an evil look and changed the subject back to herself.

    Well today I was standing in the playground with Lucky and this said woman was throwing the dirty looks my way again.....I asked Lucky if she had noticed, she had and was stunned. We know she is jealous, as since coming off the diet her weight has been up and down.

    Well I suppose I was expecting this some time but not from someone who was so encouraging and was also on a vlcd herself.
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  3. KittyB

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    How rude!!!

    Try not to let them get you down hun!!!

    You're doing fabulously and it sounds like she was just miffed that you'd stolen her limelight! :)

    Kitty xxx
     
  4. Mich

    Mich Taking Back Control...!!!

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    One word - jealous !!!!:mad:
    Stick with it your doing great .......:D
     
  5. sonkie

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    She will not put me off if anything I am gonna prove that you can lose the weight and keep it off, this will be my come back....lol.
    Just so weird from someone who has been there and done it.......!
     
  6. MadamDotty

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    Ah but been there and done it, but come off it & put some weight back on from the sound of it. Jealous that you've stuck to it & are looking great would be my guess.

    It's funny how people react to you losing weight - you do find out who your friends are!
     
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    YES , We know that peoples attitudes change as we lose weight , but coming from this girl we know and the whole fact that she has been there and done it ...and put a bit on again ...which in all fairness isnt as much as she had lost ! it just seems unreal . There was definatly a divide today .
    But it does make me and sonkie more determind to say look how well we are doing and are going to carry on doing !!!!!
     
  8. sonkie

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    Oh yes ....just picture her face when we are at target ....how cool will that be! :D :p
     
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    Good for you two!
    Yes she is jealous & very sad - instead of using you for support & encouragement she is angry with herself for failing and cannot see beyond this anger.
    Maybe one day she will be encouraged and convinced that the diet works just by seeing you two slinky sexy ladies every day.
    I feel sorry for her but delighted that she has not managed to sabotage your success.
     
  10. xxluckyxx

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    Thanks Nadine !
    Slinky sexy ladies hey !!!! whoohoo !!!
     
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    I think Nadine hit the nail on the head about Sonkie & lucky's so-called friend being angry & jealous. But don't be cross with her.the fact that she wanted to talk about herself al the time shows that she's feeling insecure-maybe just wants a friendly face to encourage her to restart. & despite how she appears we all know that encouragement from someone like sonkie who is actually succeeding is a more powerful motivator than almost anything. Sonkie you're a star!
     
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    We tried that .....she just doesnt want to hear it....suppose she will sort herself out soon. Im not cross just shocked after she has been through it.
    I tried talking bout it but no joy. suppose she will talk when she wants to.
     
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    What a shame for her that she won't talk to you .
    So you're forced to stick to plan B above, & from what I've seen of your posts you've got the determination to do it.Bravo!
     
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    Well "SHE" turned up at school and said hello and...........nothing, she totally ignored me, not even a smile.......Lucky turned up moments later and said hello and.....nothing again. Now shall I just leave her alone or should I ask her what her problem is ?
    Hmmmmmmmmmm....?
    What would you do....leave it until she realises she being rude.....or have a word...?
     
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    Happe escaping the fat

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    Think i would have to say "you alright? youve been a bit offish" and see what she says, ask when shes alone though.
     
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    it sounds to me that she can't cope with how outgoing and confident you are about this... She obviously has an issue so i'd not rock the boat and just keep being your happy self keep saying hi and hopefully she will deal with her problem and come around.... ps you are doing wonderfully be very proud of yourself!!!!
     
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    Just remembered I have her mobile...so I text her and asked her if she was ok as she has been quiet this week and hasnt spoken to us...have we done anything to p**s her off.
    Well she said she was talking to a friend about her daughter and this other woman about her diet, well we were all involved in this chat yesterday but she was the only one ignoring us.
    Today she totally blanked us.....So as she has made up some lame excuse, we are positive she just feeling insecure and will wait for her to chat to us.
    I am not gonna stop being bubbly and confident around her though as it has been a long time since I have felt like this.
     
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    shes a weird bint anyways. shes always had the ability to pretend someone aint standing right in front of her. glad u aint letting it affect ur confidence. if she can consume herself in so much jealousy i reckon shes to be pitied. i always felt sorry for her looking so much like spongebob when she was fat and thin. good for u sonkie, stuff her!
     
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    AAAAW thanx Karen I take it you know who you are talking about......?
     
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