((((Hugs)))) To all of you TTC with problems. I know can what a long and hard road it can be.
I have lost 7 babies. Two pregnancies were late losses, twins at 16 weeks, and one at 19 weeks. The other were all early losses between 7 and 11 weeks (one of those was my daughter's twin but she made it ok).
They tell you not to stress, but how can you not? I had both late losses before my son was born - my whole pregnancy with him was 9 months of stress (and being sick!), there was nothing that was going to make me relax until he was born! Same for my Daughter who was the biggest surprise ever!! My son was just three months old when I got pregnant with her. I still had a very small baby and had no idea what was going on! DH and I had talked about having another baby in the future, but not so soon! I never thought I would get pregnant again so easily and when I started bleeding at 9 weeks I felt this was a place I had been too many times before. I was sure I had MC'd again - just when I had got my head round the idea of having another baby I though it had been taken away from me - like so many times before. Although it was always in the back of my head I never thought it would be any different. We had a scan which showed I was pregnant with Twins, there was no heartbeat on the first baby, I assumed it would be the same for the other one too, the sonographer couldn't quite see her properly so I had to move around a bit and get into all sorts of awkward positions and he finally saw a nice strong heart beat!! I was over the moon and scared all at the same time and more months of stress followed and Amber did finally arrive perfectly last year.
Sorry to have waffled on a bit! I just wanted to share my story with you - recurrent MC + PCOS doesn't have to be the end. I thought it was at one point, but that's not always the case. I know everyone is different and just because things have turned out OK for me doesn't mean it will be he same for everyone BUT I thought it was important for you to know that people can and do come out the other side of this and you could be one of those people.
Good luck on your TTC journey xxx