AmandaJayne
Trainee Maintainer
Hmm, sounds like a major dose of COMMUNICATION is needed between you both. It's quite possible you have both been so busy with living and getting on with busy lives, struggling to pay bills, etc., that you have neglected to communicate with each other on a deeper level, and in so doing, have lost the way a bit with each other.
My problem is making assumptions about my what my other half is thinking, and then getting cross when he doesn't respond the way I want. No wonder really, because how is he supposed to know what the problem is unless I tell him. And vice versa.
He works away so the brief time spent together is invariably discussing some crisis or other with the kids or family, or problems with the house or work, not on strengthening OUR relationship! I think it's quite common that we sometimes allow our relationship to take a back seat while dealing with 'more important' issues. Big mistake.
Your post has reminded me to try and find the time to talk with hubby about US and the way ahead for us both.
Take care now hun.
AJ
My problem is making assumptions about my what my other half is thinking, and then getting cross when he doesn't respond the way I want. No wonder really, because how is he supposed to know what the problem is unless I tell him. And vice versa.
He works away so the brief time spent together is invariably discussing some crisis or other with the kids or family, or problems with the house or work, not on strengthening OUR relationship! I think it's quite common that we sometimes allow our relationship to take a back seat while dealing with 'more important' issues. Big mistake.
Your post has reminded me to try and find the time to talk with hubby about US and the way ahead for us both.
Take care now hun.
AJ