The colleague who said today 'to be totally truthful, I think you looked better before. You've gone too far, you're losing your looks. You just look normal now. Being bigger gave you a certain kind of aura and made you different' This is from a guy, by the way, not a woman. Should add that I'm at target at 10 and a half stone and hardly twig-like! It really ****ed me off and upset me - what an insensitive thing to say!