Wicked Witch
Full Member
Hiya Pixie,
So sorry to hear your having a bad time recently. You've already had some excellent advice. The only thing I would add is that the run up to a wedding is EXTREMELY stressful - even though at the time you may not realise it. Your relationship is really under the magnifing glass and sometimes that can make you find problems that don't really exist. On the other hand - you mustn't feel pressured into going ahead with the wedding if it isn't what you really want. Like some posters have already said nothing is worth the pain of a marriage which is wrong.
Good luck hun. So I guess my advice is - take some time about to talk to h2b but also to yourself. Only you can answer this one.
WW aka Lucy02/12/06
So sorry to hear your having a bad time recently. You've already had some excellent advice. The only thing I would add is that the run up to a wedding is EXTREMELY stressful - even though at the time you may not realise it. Your relationship is really under the magnifing glass and sometimes that can make you find problems that don't really exist. On the other hand - you mustn't feel pressured into going ahead with the wedding if it isn't what you really want. Like some posters have already said nothing is worth the pain of a marriage which is wrong.
Good luck hun. So I guess my advice is - take some time about to talk to h2b but also to yourself. Only you can answer this one.
WW aka Lucy02/12/06