dalek said:
Minerva - thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I am feeling very down at the moment - not just LL - some other issues as well. Yesterday was a bit of a black anniversary for me. Was reading through a LL diary and realised that I hold anger in and try to eat it down - sound familiar anyone? If I wasn't on LL would probably have eaten a shedload yesterday.
Often don't know what to do for the best - hold in the anger because I don't want a row and have a bad atmosphere around my daughter - but what kind of message is that to her? Peace at any cost? Even to your self esteem?
Sorry I am rambling.
Also read that some people have found The Secret useful so have just ordered it on Amazon.
Take care
Hi I'm not a returner, just dropped by as I often find reading these threads help me put my own journey into perspective and maybe at the end of LL not have to become a returner, well here's hoping anyway!!
Felt the need to comment for a couple of reasons. Firstly the comments about holding anger in for various reasons, one being your daughter. This is something I did for many years, but unfortunately didn't benefit my now beautiful 20 year old daughter or my son in fact! I found it transferred my actions to her assuming it was the right way to deal with things! There came a turning point where I. Became emotionally stronger and stood up for myself and what I believed to be right or wrong, it resulted in me starting to gain control little pockets of my life back, it's a slow process but I think I am winning and it has helped my children grow in to lovely adults.
Secondly The Secret, well all I can say is it has changed my life! It's a hard read but worthwhile the first time I started reading it I put it down as o wasn't convinced, bug have a great friend who introduced me to it so she would encourage me to stick with it. I did and so many positive things have happened for me it's actually quite scary! It's not for everyone,but if you have an open mind you will learn to use the techniques without thinking in time. have a look on you tube there is a 20 min trailer of the secret DVD gives a great insight, there is also an official secret website that holds so many inspirational stories about all sorts of things, money, relationships etc etc I often get daily teachings come through which are quotes, yesterday's was
There are two kinds of people:
Those who say "I will believe it when I see it"
And those who say "to see it, I know I must believe it"
Secret followers live by the second phrase!
Hope the secret works for you.
Minerva talks so much sense and is a very inspirational person and speaks so much sense!!
Good luck with this journey and have a fab day xx
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