Hey everyone
I'm in a bit of a dilemma.
I met a guy the other week and I went out on two dates with him last week. He's really nice and everything, but I'm just not really interested. There's just no spark. I think he's be good as a friend...but so far nothing more to be honest.
The other day, I agreed that I'd go out with him tonight just for a few drinks. Now, I'm really dreading it cos I feel like I'm leading him on. Do I cancel? Do I go and make it clear that right now I'm just not sure, not interested. I don't wanna be awful to him cos like...he is a really nice guy. I'm gonna sound SO shallow here...but the two things that are putting me off him is: 1. He has a big nose. I mean a really big nose. It's just the first thing I see and I just can't seem to get past that, which is really shallow I know. Nobodies perfect. And now I sound like a cow but I'm not...it was just everyone was pointing out his nose and now it's the only thing I see.
Secondly, the other thing that puts me off is that on Saturday night, he wanted me to do something but I was having a night out with the girls. He showed up at the pub with his friends (it's both our locals so I cant blame him for that) and kinda followed me around (when I moved to talk to people, him and his croud gravitated over) and everytime I spoke to someone (mainly a guy) he was texting me like "whose that...I think I know him/her"...and I just felt suffocated.
These are all red flags which make me think, why go out with him? But he is really nice. Ughh! I feel awful now...
I'm in a bit of a dilemma.
I met a guy the other week and I went out on two dates with him last week. He's really nice and everything, but I'm just not really interested. There's just no spark. I think he's be good as a friend...but so far nothing more to be honest.
The other day, I agreed that I'd go out with him tonight just for a few drinks. Now, I'm really dreading it cos I feel like I'm leading him on. Do I cancel? Do I go and make it clear that right now I'm just not sure, not interested. I don't wanna be awful to him cos like...he is a really nice guy. I'm gonna sound SO shallow here...but the two things that are putting me off him is: 1. He has a big nose. I mean a really big nose. It's just the first thing I see and I just can't seem to get past that, which is really shallow I know. Nobodies perfect. And now I sound like a cow but I'm not...it was just everyone was pointing out his nose and now it's the only thing I see.
Secondly, the other thing that puts me off is that on Saturday night, he wanted me to do something but I was having a night out with the girls. He showed up at the pub with his friends (it's both our locals so I cant blame him for that) and kinda followed me around (when I moved to talk to people, him and his croud gravitated over) and everytime I spoke to someone (mainly a guy) he was texting me like "whose that...I think I know him/her"...and I just felt suffocated.
These are all red flags which make me think, why go out with him? But he is really nice. Ughh! I feel awful now...
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