mine is alot like fulltum, i have 4 kids and i want to be energetic and stay young with them not a big blob who cant keep up.. my eldest is 7 and i dont want her to get to the age where shes embarassed of me due to my size.. i also want to be healthy as shes the same body type as me and if shes eats what i used to eat then she will inherit this weight problem i have.. my youngest is 6mths and im done baby making now so this is my time!
for me feeling good about myself is good enough a target to aim for.. look deep inside and find out what u really want then visualise that when motivation is lacking!