utternutta
Full Member
Hello
Didnt want to come on here and air my worries but feel need some support. Nearly two years ago i was naughty and looked at bf's emails on facebook. Saw that he had been emailing a girl from work and had said in one of her photos she looked hot!! A few emails to me seemed also a bit flirty and not right for someone in a relationship!! Was upset and had it out with him and he said its a friend of his at work who had lost her job and bf and he was trying to cheer her up. He honestly is such a nice guy and no one could ever think he would cheat. I also know i shouldnt have looked in the first place!! I never thought more happened and we talked and he realised maybe he shouldnt have spoken to her like that. Everything has ben fine and we are even engaged now! But im still angry about what happened... why if he is in love with me would he be emailing another girl this!! Im so upset today cause every now and then i think about it again and it pops into my head for no reason at all!! How can i get over this and dyou think i should speak to him again? Or am i over reacting?
Didnt want to come on here and air my worries but feel need some support. Nearly two years ago i was naughty and looked at bf's emails on facebook. Saw that he had been emailing a girl from work and had said in one of her photos she looked hot!! A few emails to me seemed also a bit flirty and not right for someone in a relationship!! Was upset and had it out with him and he said its a friend of his at work who had lost her job and bf and he was trying to cheer her up. He honestly is such a nice guy and no one could ever think he would cheat. I also know i shouldnt have looked in the first place!! I never thought more happened and we talked and he realised maybe he shouldnt have spoken to her like that. Everything has ben fine and we are even engaged now! But im still angry about what happened... why if he is in love with me would he be emailing another girl this!! Im so upset today cause every now and then i think about it again and it pops into my head for no reason at all!! How can i get over this and dyou think i should speak to him again? Or am i over reacting?