*Emsie*
Gold Member
I have a friend who has issues about her weight. She goes on diets and loses and gets really pleased about it and then puts back on and gets down.
I fin it really hard to see her going through this and have tried various ways of helping her and don't seem to be able to make a difference.
I've tried encouraging what seems good and discouraging what seems bad.
She doesn't like sw says it doesnt workfor her (she is of the mind where if you want to lose weight you can't eat)
She told me a fewweeks ago she was dieting doing it on her own and then has been texting mewhat she has lost.
We are supposed to be going out friday and today in a text she put its party time friday I have lost 19lbs in a month.
I didn't know what to reply.
As I am typing this I think I need to be honest with her as can be. Which is I love her whatever her size, hate her to be unhappy and hard on herself whether thats because she has eaten or by not eating etc so find it hard to know what to say in response to the loss texts etc
She has told meshe is doing it cutting down/healthy eating but I have been told by others that she is not eating and having some milkshake stuff.
Just needed to air about this as it upsets me to see her like this and that if she hadn't lost those lbs she wouldnt be able to party
I fin it really hard to see her going through this and have tried various ways of helping her and don't seem to be able to make a difference.
I've tried encouraging what seems good and discouraging what seems bad.
She doesn't like sw says it doesnt workfor her (she is of the mind where if you want to lose weight you can't eat)
She told me a fewweeks ago she was dieting doing it on her own and then has been texting mewhat she has lost.
We are supposed to be going out friday and today in a text she put its party time friday I have lost 19lbs in a month.
I didn't know what to reply.
As I am typing this I think I need to be honest with her as can be. Which is I love her whatever her size, hate her to be unhappy and hard on herself whether thats because she has eaten or by not eating etc so find it hard to know what to say in response to the loss texts etc
She has told meshe is doing it cutting down/healthy eating but I have been told by others that she is not eating and having some milkshake stuff.
Just needed to air about this as it upsets me to see her like this and that if she hadn't lost those lbs she wouldnt be able to party