I used to have my own business selling lingerie, and have yet to find a woman happy with the complete package, so regardless of my own fears, have to keep reminding myself to love myself just the way I am, as there never seems to be the happy ending we all dream of. Great underwear works wonders, and its worth treating yourself to fab bras to show off what you have. And anyone who gets that close a look at them should be thinking you are fab regardless of whats up front. When we are all 80 it will be different, so let enjoy what we have now.