Fatty_no_more
Slimming for my children
5lbs!!! yipeeeee!!!
I didnt even stick to it on the weekend!
Feeling poo tonight tho as some of you know had a row with my dad back in june and not spoken to him as all my life he has put me down calling me ugly and fat etc and he called h2b fat one time and it really annoyed me and the last time i spoke to him he told me that i looked disgusting just before i was going to a friends christening! So i had a row with him and said i wasnt putting up with it.
That was back in june and he didnt contact me and it was in august and I contacted him to try and make peace for my cousins wedding but he wouldnt have it and I said what about my wedding day will you tell me i look disgusting? and he said well you dont want to walk down the isle looking like a frog do you?
So i put the phone down and that was it and we avoided one another!
Last week i got this email from him
Hi Loz,
It appears that you have got the hump with me, which has
been going on for quite a while.
You are planning to get married next year and its going to be
your big day. I don't want to spoil that and you have made your
fears quite clear.
There is a solution however, and that is if I don't go at all.
There is also someone there I don't want to meet either, so it would
kill two-birds-with-one-throw. You had better let me know of your
intentions. My thoughts will still be with you anyway.
Love
Dad
I bumped into him in the chemist today and he tried to argue with me there and so i said this isnt the time or place so I walked out and i emailed him this when i got home.
Dad.
I didn't think arguing in the chemist was appropriate and I do not see that we can come to an agreement or a truce unless you accept that I will not have you putting me down anymore. You plead that you do not know what I mean but I am not having it. I am a grown woman and I don't want to be ridiculed when you think I don't look "nice" in a dress by you or commenting that me and mike have put on weight.
All I have asked for all along is for you to not do it again as in not put me down or comment when you know something will hurt someone. You do it without realising and I think this is the reason why your friends don't come to see you. So you need to think before you speak as you wouldn't like it if it was done the other way round.
Lorraine
So he replied to this
Hi Loz,
It seems that the situation is unconsolable, so for your
sake I think it is best that we have no more to do with one another.
I don't consider I had any genuine friends anyway, so whom are
you referring to, and did you hear the conversation to decide who
said what and who do you agree with. Its conveniant that you agree
with them when it suit you.
If not as I suspect, then it is obvious that you would prefer there
company anyway.
So I will make the decision for you and not go to your wedding. It
will kill two-birds-in-one-stone, and stop any hassle.
I've gotten use to the situation, so good bye.
So feel like crap
sorry for the long post just need to get off my chest!
xx:cry:
I didnt even stick to it on the weekend!
Feeling poo tonight tho as some of you know had a row with my dad back in june and not spoken to him as all my life he has put me down calling me ugly and fat etc and he called h2b fat one time and it really annoyed me and the last time i spoke to him he told me that i looked disgusting just before i was going to a friends christening! So i had a row with him and said i wasnt putting up with it.
That was back in june and he didnt contact me and it was in august and I contacted him to try and make peace for my cousins wedding but he wouldnt have it and I said what about my wedding day will you tell me i look disgusting? and he said well you dont want to walk down the isle looking like a frog do you?
So i put the phone down and that was it and we avoided one another!
Last week i got this email from him
Hi Loz,
It appears that you have got the hump with me, which has
been going on for quite a while.
You are planning to get married next year and its going to be
your big day. I don't want to spoil that and you have made your
fears quite clear.
There is a solution however, and that is if I don't go at all.
There is also someone there I don't want to meet either, so it would
kill two-birds-with-one-throw. You had better let me know of your
intentions. My thoughts will still be with you anyway.
Love
Dad
I bumped into him in the chemist today and he tried to argue with me there and so i said this isnt the time or place so I walked out and i emailed him this when i got home.
Dad.
I didn't think arguing in the chemist was appropriate and I do not see that we can come to an agreement or a truce unless you accept that I will not have you putting me down anymore. You plead that you do not know what I mean but I am not having it. I am a grown woman and I don't want to be ridiculed when you think I don't look "nice" in a dress by you or commenting that me and mike have put on weight.
All I have asked for all along is for you to not do it again as in not put me down or comment when you know something will hurt someone. You do it without realising and I think this is the reason why your friends don't come to see you. So you need to think before you speak as you wouldn't like it if it was done the other way round.
Lorraine
So he replied to this
Hi Loz,
It seems that the situation is unconsolable, so for your
sake I think it is best that we have no more to do with one another.
I don't consider I had any genuine friends anyway, so whom are
you referring to, and did you hear the conversation to decide who
said what and who do you agree with. Its conveniant that you agree
with them when it suit you.
If not as I suspect, then it is obvious that you would prefer there
company anyway.
So I will make the decision for you and not go to your wedding. It
will kill two-birds-in-one-stone, and stop any hassle.
I've gotten use to the situation, so good bye.
So feel like crap
sorry for the long post just need to get off my chest!
xx:cry: