RacieTracie
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Hi everyone,
i just wanted to run something by you guys to see if other opinions were the same as mine or if i am completely over reacting!
I went out last night and as per norm, when the babysitter arrived I was gathering my bits together.
I was getting picked up at 8'45 pm by my ex boyfriend and I booked her earlier so i could pop into my neighbour oppersite as shes been low this week, (the babysitter lives at number 31, im at number 29)
so, it was my intention to go see my friend at number 32.
Me number 29
babysitter number 31
friend number 32
so, I mention to the babysitter that im going to number 32 before i get picked up and she said "oh, she's coming here later to keep me company whilst I babysit" so i was suprised as Id seen the woman and shed not said anything to me. So the sitter said "didnt she tell you she was coming over" and i said "no, she didnt "TELL" me" and the sitter said "oh, well she told me she had told you"
so again i went outside where my friend was talking to another neighbour and nothing was said.
so, i went straight out.
When my girls woke up this morning, they told me that not only did my friend come in (the one i was told about) but the neighbour at number 28 came in to to eat her dinner in my house coz she wanted peace and quiet! (she has 2 students in her house, she never has her kids every weekend and she wanted peace and quiet in my house with my 5 kids, a babysitter and my friend!!!!)
I checked my phone, no missed calls, no texts, when i got in nothing was mentioned and this is what I need answered (if anyone has kept up coz its all very confusing!!!)
Am I over the top to think that its totally out of order for these people, who dont normally give me the time of day, other than my friend, to feel that they can come and socialise in MY house without ASKING me first if i minded!!!
So, i have had it out with these neighbours today and I told them all that if it was them, they'd have been just as mad!
theyve all said it was the other person etc etc and i just told them how downright rude it was to just invite themselves into my house.
Now, just before i went out, the mum of the babysitter at number 31 said "oh, you're going out! not having a girly night in then!!!" and i cant help thinking that this was all planned for them to have a girly night in my house without me being there.
I did let rip at these people coz i dont expect to find out from my girls who was in my house!!!
Anyhow, guess who's the bad person!!!! ME!!!
no one can see what the fuss is about, but these are all people that if you knock on there door they wont invite you in but talk to you on the doorstep.
if i had been ASKED i wouldnt have minded so much but its just taking the p*** in my opinion
Sorry to rant for so long, and i hope that it isnt me over reacting
Thanks
Tracie
i just wanted to run something by you guys to see if other opinions were the same as mine or if i am completely over reacting!
I went out last night and as per norm, when the babysitter arrived I was gathering my bits together.
I was getting picked up at 8'45 pm by my ex boyfriend and I booked her earlier so i could pop into my neighbour oppersite as shes been low this week, (the babysitter lives at number 31, im at number 29)
so, it was my intention to go see my friend at number 32.
Me number 29
babysitter number 31
friend number 32
so, I mention to the babysitter that im going to number 32 before i get picked up and she said "oh, she's coming here later to keep me company whilst I babysit" so i was suprised as Id seen the woman and shed not said anything to me. So the sitter said "didnt she tell you she was coming over" and i said "no, she didnt "TELL" me" and the sitter said "oh, well she told me she had told you"
so again i went outside where my friend was talking to another neighbour and nothing was said.
so, i went straight out.
When my girls woke up this morning, they told me that not only did my friend come in (the one i was told about) but the neighbour at number 28 came in to to eat her dinner in my house coz she wanted peace and quiet! (she has 2 students in her house, she never has her kids every weekend and she wanted peace and quiet in my house with my 5 kids, a babysitter and my friend!!!!)
I checked my phone, no missed calls, no texts, when i got in nothing was mentioned and this is what I need answered (if anyone has kept up coz its all very confusing!!!)
Am I over the top to think that its totally out of order for these people, who dont normally give me the time of day, other than my friend, to feel that they can come and socialise in MY house without ASKING me first if i minded!!!
So, i have had it out with these neighbours today and I told them all that if it was them, they'd have been just as mad!
theyve all said it was the other person etc etc and i just told them how downright rude it was to just invite themselves into my house.
Now, just before i went out, the mum of the babysitter at number 31 said "oh, you're going out! not having a girly night in then!!!" and i cant help thinking that this was all planned for them to have a girly night in my house without me being there.
I did let rip at these people coz i dont expect to find out from my girls who was in my house!!!
Anyhow, guess who's the bad person!!!! ME!!!
no one can see what the fuss is about, but these are all people that if you knock on there door they wont invite you in but talk to you on the doorstep.
if i had been ASKED i wouldnt have minded so much but its just taking the p*** in my opinion
Sorry to rant for so long, and i hope that it isnt me over reacting
Thanks
Tracie
