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anyone got any tips for butterflies in the tummy

Jeep

Otherwise known as Jools
Why I hear you ask? Well an old male friend of mine that I see only now and then, and that I have a massive soft spot for has asked me down to his at the weekend. He last saw me last Easter when I was around 21st. I am now even lighter than when we first ever met 12 years ago. He always said I should do something about my weight and I am just hoping that he likes my progress so far - I am sure that he will.

I always used to be really really nervous before going to see him - you know the sort of thing - butterflies in the tummy, dry mouth, palpitations etc lol.

I think that LT will go out the window this weekend but I will have lean meat and veg and hope to burn off a few calories anyway ;)

Any tips to calm the nerves would be most grateful :D
 
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Scotsmist

Life is not a Rehersal!
Aw that is lovely; so pleased for you....why dont you try CALMS! It helped me when I was going through my 3rd driving test! Calms you down and it is natural...

Have a lovely time and let us know how it goes...I am sure he will be absolutely delighted with your results!!! :)
 

MiniMimi2091

running strictly on fat!
Hi hunny bunny!!!

Aww, I can only say enjoy!!! It doesn't happen very often so embrace and be yourself!!!

You can't go wrong with this one xxx






 

Jeep

Otherwise known as Jools
Hi Ladies,

Thanks Iris I think that I might give Calms a try - though the nerves usually go as soon as I seen him :D

And Minimimi - no it certainly does not come along very often lol - have to make the most of him when I can :D as god only knows when I will see him again - probably when I get to goal - now that would be simply amazing - he'll probably fall on the floor in shock :D
 

Jeep

Otherwise known as Jools
Gin? heehee! Good luck and stay safe xx
Lol thank you - though much prefer Vodka :D

If only I had time for a full refeed then I would be able to enjoy a decent drink with him - oh well never mind dont need alcohol to have a laugh :D
 

MiniMimi2091

running strictly on fat!
And Minimimi - no it certainly does not come along very often lol - have to make the most of him when I can :D as god only knows when I will see him again - probably when I get to goal - now that would be simply amazing - he'll probably fall on the floor in shock :D

That's the best motivation in the world!!!!
Will be rooting for you all the way sweetie xxx
Good luck for your meeting xxx
 

Jeep

Otherwise known as Jools
Cor is it - I cannot wait for that day but this weekend will be a good pointer :D
 

xx Cathy xx

Bye Bye Huge Bottom!
Agree with a couple of others on here definately go for the Kalms! They got me through saying my wedding vows as I had a full blown panic attack in the rehearsal cos the words wouldn't come out!

Start taking them about 5 days before you go as they work better that way.

Have a fantastic time hun go show him the new you xx
 

nerac123

GO GO GO !!
He'll fall for you proper at goal !!! lol

You go and have fun now - be confident and gorgeous and he'll love it !!!

xxx
 

Cookeh

Recovering Cookie Addict
Just seen this Jools, lucky woman, I bet your dead excited. We'll all be here waiting on the juicy gossip after the weekend!! Have a great time hon, you deserve it!
 

Jeep

Otherwise known as Jools
Hiya all - well sadly not much gossip to report on :( I really need to get my confidence up a bit more for that sort of thing lol.

I met him and he was a little bit shocked at how well I was doing - so much so that he burst out laughing lol. He was pleased to see me and we had a really nice evening chatting and laughing. It was probably one of the nicest chats we have had in a long long time. I am not sure when I will see him next - probably when I get to my goal which is 12st - so I have 4st to go - though he said that losing that much more off me might be too much. Not quite sure what he meant by that but it was a lovely evening and so good to see him again. Its such a shame he lives so far away - but hey ho. It will be interesting to see his reaction next time we meet up and I will be at goal :D
 

Predator

Silver Member
By the sounds of it you'll have his heart on a platter on no time ;)

I don't think he meant anything bad by what he said btw, seems to be kinda a protective thing to say, my mams always saying it. x.x
 

Jeep

Otherwise known as Jools
By the sounds of it you'll have his heart on a platter on no time ;)

I don't think he meant anything bad by what he said btw, seems to be kinda a protective thing to say, my mams always saying it. x.x

Ooh that would be nice lol though not sure how it would work with us being over 3 hours drive each way apart - but we will worry about that if and when it happens ;)

Yeah I've not taken offence to it as I think it was specially as he has only ever seen me as big - lots of people are already saying that I shouldnt lose any more now as it would make me look too gaunt - but I still have plenty of padding to get rid of yet :)
 




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