Anyone in the 9s want to be in the 8's ??
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donna88 said:I know how you feel about nearest and dearest, mine were a nightmare from about 9 and a half stone on... I just don't mention to them that I'm trying to loose now unless they know I've had a bit of a gain, I just tell them I'm maintaining, my mum would have a heart attack if she knew I wanted to go half a lb under 9 stone... it's silly
Sounds like a plan to me anyway, but you'll have to see how you feel when you get there. Only you can decide whats best for you
Just finished dinner, it was lovelyOh and my boyfriend came home with a massive bunch of flowers for my Birthday as well, gave them to me today as he didn't see the point in trying to hide them for a day (which to be honest I agree with) but my mum had to mention it was early when I posted a photo on facebook :/ he can't do anything right where she's concerned lately. I told her he was taking me to Scarborough for my Birthday (well I asked her if she could have little one so he could) and her first comment was, ''oh well he's fallen lucky again hasn't he, he get's that treat as well''
The thing is, at the moment and for quite a while now, I don't work, I've been doing voluntary work since October, hoping to get a paid job soon, but he works and provides for me and my son, who although he's not his own (we met when he was 14 months old) he treats him like he is. Despite the fact that he is the only provider of this relationship, we do have an equal relationship, he doesn't begrudge me buying my hifi bars or a new dress if I want one. But my mum always seems to think I'm missing out for some reason... I just don't get it. I mean WTH yeah he gets to go away as well, but he's my boyfriend I love him and I want to spend a couple of days with him going away somewhere! I wouldn't have wanted for him to pay for me to go on my own
Awe donna don't let it bother you. Can imagine the comments get tiresome after a while though.
I have treated my oh to weekends away in the past and it wasn't to benefit me, it was for him. Yes obviously I would be there but I don't see the problem.
Also if your oh works and provides for you all I think he sounds like a gem. Do you ever say to your mum how her comments are unfair and does she know what he does? I know it can be hard but don't let it ruin your birthday. Only you will know who is good for you. Hope you have great day x
lynica said:Liking the statistics kim
feeling fat today although I got in those jeans on Saturday funny how we feel so different on different days anyway been on plan today so will keep the fluid intake up.
Thinking to myself ( and only sharing with you guys) I'm going go for a few pounds loss. Getting in those jeans made me feel great and I would really love to be a size 10 properly so thinking 5lbs would do it ( years ago I was told that 10lb was a dress size) that would take me to 9.3 which I think also takes me to bmi of 22 which is bang on in the middle of healthy. What do you all think??? Not asking any of my nearest and dearest cause they think I've lost enough now ;-) x
I think you look great but I also think you should do what suits you. Folk say am tiny but they were saying that when I hadn't lost my baby weight when I was clearly bigger. It doesn't matter what other folk ( unless its effecting your health) think its your body and its how you feel x
lynica
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donna88 said:I know how you feel about nearest and dearest, mine were a nightmare from about 9 and a half stone on... I just don't mention to them that I'm trying to loose now unless they know I've had a bit of a gain, I just tell them I'm maintaining, my mum would have a heart attack if she knew I wanted to go half a lb under 9 stone... it's silly
Sounds like a plan to me anyway, but you'll have to see how you feel when you get there. Only you can decide whats best for you
Just finished dinner, it was lovely
The thing is, at the moment and for quite a while now, I don't work, I've been doing voluntary work since October, hoping to get a paid job soon, but he works and provides for me and my son, who although he's not his own (we met when he was 14 months old) he treats him like he is. Despite the fact that he is the only provider of this relationship, we do have an equal relationship, he doesn't begrudge me buying my hifi bars or a new dress if I want one. But my mum always seems to think I'm missing out for some reason... I just don't get it. I mean WTH yeah he gets to go away as well, but he's my boyfriend I love him and I want to spend a couple of days with him going away somewhere! I wouldn't have wanted for him to pay for me to go on my own
It is difficult keeping everyone happy but you need to live your life... Hope you manage your weekend away be lovely for you both
Happy birthday for tommorrow xx
lilprincessvic said:
Fanbloodytastic!!!!!! So chuffed for you vicky that's just what you needed 100% does work then
What was the DVD you've gone on to called might have to take a look for when the shred is complete
debtin said:
Thanks just mulling things over just feeling really fat today don't know why but you get days like this. Think what I will do is stick to the plan 100% and see where it takes me
lilprincessvic
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It's body revolution it is only available in the us but I 'aquired' it.
I nearly did fall off the scales debs I haven't lost that much in a long long time. Possibly bout 6 months.
Very happy!
I nearly did fall off the scales debs I haven't lost that much in a long long time. Possibly bout 6 months.
Very happy!
kim63
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lynica said:Liking the statistics kim
feeling fat today although I got in those jeans on Saturday funny how we feel so different on different days anyway been on plan today so will keep the fluid intake up.
Thinking to myself ( and only sharing with you guys) I'm going go for a few pounds loss. Getting in those jeans made me feel great and I would really love to be a size 10 properly so thinking 5lbs would do it ( years ago I was told that 10lb was a dress size) that would take me to 9.3 which I think also takes me to bmi of 22 which is bang on in the middle of healthy. What do you all think??? Not asking any of my nearest and dearest cause they think I've lost enough now ;-) x
I think we all have days like that Ronnie & they're horrible, but you just have to work thru them til you get a 'thin day'!
About going down to 9.3, you go girl as you'll still be at a healthy BMI & if you stay on plan Im sure you'll get there. Just stay schtum with your family as they're not to know! X
kim63
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debtin said:
Luckily my legs have always been pretty solid & strong, which has helped with running & cycling. I don't have a lot of fat on them, I carry my adipose around my middle which I hate but hopefully with me banging out the miles on my bike, that will start to go as I'm very conscious of working my inner core muscles when on the bike! X
donna88
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Whoop whoop, well done, well chuffed for you
going to weigh myself at my mums tomorrow, as I can't make it to weigh in. Will be very unofficial and I'm not going to worry about it because obviously the scales will be different, plus I'm expecting to gain next week (just hope over the two weeks I actually loose though)
I've pointed out before that she's really down on him all the time and she said she'll stop and that she thinks he's great and obviously good for me and little one, she said the only problem she has with him is his table manors (which was really random as that was nothing to do with what we were talking about at the time)
I know what the issue is, she does like him, but a few Christmases ago we had my family and his family round and his family kicked off and didn't talk to us for two weeks, since then there has been one other occasion where they've kicked off about me (when actually what they were kicking off about had nothing to do with me) so its not him my mum has a problem with but them, but she keeps on at him. She doesn't seem to realise its only me she ends up making life difficult for and upsetting
It is difficult keeping everyone happy but you need to live your life... Hope you manage your weekend away be lovely for you both
Happy birthday for tommorrow xx
Not sure when we're going yet, need to book it tomorrow
it's a groupon so have to wait for the voucher to become available, just hope they have the dates over half term available Thank you
I want to start another on of her DVD's, well either start the shred again, or do 6 week 6 pack or no more trouble zones, but want to get below 9 stone before I do as when I started the shred last time I gained a lb
100% red day for me, 2 HEA 2 HEB and 10.5 syns
donna88 said:Whoop whoop, well done, well chuffed for you
going to weigh myself at my mums tomorrow, as I can't make it to weigh in. Will be very unofficial and I'm not going to worry about it because obviously the scales will be different, plus I'm expecting to gain next week (just hope over the two weeks I actually loose though)
I've pointed out before that she's really down on him all the time and she said she'll stop and that she thinks he's great and obviously good for me and little one, she said the only problem she has with him is his table manors (which was really random as that was nothing to do with what we were talking about at the time)
I know what the issue is, she does like him, but a few Christmases ago we had my family and his family round and his family kicked off and didn't talk to us for two weeks, since then there has been one other occasion where they've kicked off about me (when actually what they were kicking off about had nothing to do with me) so its not him my mum has a problem with but them, but she keeps on at him. She doesn't seem to realise its only me she ends up making life difficult for and upsetting
Not sure when we're going yet, need to book it tomorrow
Thank you
I want to start another on of her DVD's, well either start the shred again, or do 6 week 6 pack or no more trouble zones, but want to get below 9 stone before I do as when I started the shred last time I gained a lb
100% red day for me, 2 HEA 2 HEB and 10.5 syns
I have been thinking the same. Did you finish level two? I am not finding level two easy at all. I opened all the windows today as I get really hot doing it and was still knackered and hot.
Dreading but also curious to see level three. Keep me posted as to the next one you try x
donna88
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I found level 2 easier to some extent, I really struggle with the plank position but that's it. I can't remember when I went up to level 2 I think it was about day four or five, but had to stop after day 7 with my stomach problems
which reminds me, I got a letter from the doctors today saying they didn't find anything other then the cyst on my ovary and that there's nothing worrying about it but that I'll have to have another scan in a few weeks just to check up on it. I'm hoping that is what was causing me problems and that it will go away.... I've not had problems for a while at least
kim63
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donna88 said:I found level 2 easier to some extent, I really struggle with the plank position but that's it. I can't remember when I went up to level 2 I think it was about day four or five, but had to stop after day 7 with my stomach problems
which reminds me, I got a letter from the doctors today saying they didn't find anything other then the cyst on my ovary and that there's nothing worrying about it but that I'll have to have another scan in a few weeks just to check up on it. I'm hoping that is what was causing me problems and that it will go away.... I've not had problems for a while at least
Good to know it isn't anything ominous Donna.
Happy birthday for tomorrow. X
icklerockchick
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Ooh exciting news all round today!
Fab cycle Kim that's amazing!
Well done on the loss vicky well deserved and look forward to seeing how much you have toned up too!
Donna that's a shame they are funny about your bf it sounds like you have a good one who cares a lot about you and your kid so try not to let them bother you too much.
Had a nice night met my friend and went to cinema to see hunger games, a few weeks behind the trend lol! Loved the books even if they are for kids!! Ate a lot of junk and thought I would have used most of my weeklies but had ate quite light during the day so can turn it into a propoints day and then it's not so bad! Love having that flexibility even though I mostly want to do simply filling days. X
Fab cycle Kim that's amazing!
Well done on the loss vicky well deserved and look forward to seeing how much you have toned up too!
Donna that's a shame they are funny about your bf it sounds like you have a good one who cares a lot about you and your kid so try not to let them bother you too much.
Had a nice night met my friend and went to cinema to see hunger games, a few weeks behind the trend lol! Loved the books even if they are for kids!! Ate a lot of junk and thought I would have used most of my weeklies but had ate quite light during the day so can turn it into a propoints day and then it's not so bad! Love having that flexibility even though I mostly want to do simply filling days. X
lilprincessvic
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kim63 said:
It was defo my turn!
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