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  1. Nicci3636

    Nicci3636 Full Member

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    I must seem like SUCH an angry person on here as all I seem to do is moan. I'm really not! Usually a very happy and (i hate this word) bubbly girlie!

    BUT I really do hate men. Just found out my boyfriend of 2 and a half years has been cheating on me :( :( :(

    First I was absolutely devastated. It must be because I'm so fat and repulsive right? I was pretty lucky for him to even give me the time of day. And usually that would have been the trigger for me to reach for the biscuit tin.

    But do you know what? SCREW HIM.
    I'm nearly 3 stone down and that means I'm halfway to goal.
    We'll be going to the same New Years Eve party and it's now my aim to look the best that I can look and shift as much as I can off of me by then.

    Sorry again for bringing this up, but if I don't make myself go on here and vent...who knows what will happen??

    Sorry!!!

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    you doing great hun f**k you ex he oviously wasnt worth you time just be strong don't reach for the biscuit tin and you will find someone alot beter sending my love i no you must be upset after the news but keep strong and just show him what his lost xx good luck on ur journey your doing so well x
     
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    Thank you Lovie. That means alot :)
    I know I'm better off without!
    Stayed 100% TS last night, so if I can handle that, I can handle anything!!

    xxxxx
     
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    I completely agree, he so doesn't deserve you. But even more importantly well done on sticking to ts while dealing with it. If you can stick to the diet after news like that it means you can deal with emotions without the biscuit tin for the rest of your life.
    Good luck, I hope he gets what he deserves (maybe castration? lol) and you feel and look fab at new year!!
    xx
     
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    OMG what a w****r !!! you go for it girl just think another 7 weeks on ts and you will look a hot babe, I would spend the next 7 weeks planning what drop dead dress I was going to wear to that party and totally snub him, just remember karma is a wonderful thing just wait and see ;) I know because it happend to me :p xxx
     
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    Yeah *^%# him I say! Stupid t*sser! Sorry hun x
     
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    Thanks lovleys :)
    This place has been my savour!!
    100% TS. Even after having an arguement with him last night.

    SO not worth my time OR me messing this up!

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    Completely agree, first time I did a VLCD was mostly to shove it in an ex's face, not the best reason to do it but my god did it help LOL
    Honestly hun sod him! You deserve better!!
     
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    itll be his loss when you look so good and hes left with his chin on the floor...sod him :)

    h x
     
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    I don't get the whole cheating thing, I guess I never will - same thing happened to me, GF cheating behind my back.
    I found out we split up and they got married soon after, ah well eh.

    When I asked why, I was told it was because I was just far too nice and the other guy was a bit of a bad boy. lol - marvellous - what do you say to that.

    "ok love ill be more of a ******* if you like" lol

    Fail

    stick to the diet, get even more gorgeous and sexy and find yourself a newer fitter model :D

    x
     
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    Oh she'll love the fact he's a bad boy when he cheats on her and she's left all alone! Some women are just thick! Congrats on being one of the nice ones ;)
     
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    Owww, this is lovely! I knew I'd find like minded people somewhere out there!!

    Thanks for all being so lush

    xxxxxx
     
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    You are welcome hun x
    Just remember it's not your fault, cheats cheat! You are obv better off without him as he's a lying cheating arse x
    You've done so well to stick to it, really really great, so keep going and being able to rub his nose in it and the end will be a nice bonus ;)
     
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    Well done for being so commited and sticking to it, new you new start! Dont do it for him though, he aint worth.it, do it for you.....and make sure you look slamming at that party hun ;)
     
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    First thing well done on your determination on the diet it shows you have willpower . And second it is his loss he isnt worth the oxygen your using on him . Just think when you reach your goal weight and all the new dresses you can buy and all the admiring looks you will get from guys you no you have done the right thing i really wish you good luck and if you need talk message me xx
     
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    Seriously, a little bit choked up here!
    Thanks lovie.
    I know its the right thing to be thinking. And DEFINITELY the right thing to do.
    I can't WAIT til the NYE party. Screw him :)
    Haven't weighed myself yet as I'm trying to let myself have anice surprise on Monday :)

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    Good for you girl! Who needs men eh?!! especially ones that cheat! there's nothing worse than a man dragging you down, your well rid of him! and in time this will make you a stronger person! Keep at it and he will see at the party what a massive mistake he made. Your gonna look gorgeous! xxxxxxxxx
     
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    Nicci, I am really sorry this has happened to you - what an a**se h**e.
    The truth is you are far better off without someone like that in your life and before you know it he will be nothing but a bad distant memory.
    Keep going with the diet (you are doing amazing) and just think how great you will feel showing off the new you!
    Maybe even a new guy for the Party perhaps.
    Karma is a great thing and this guy will get what he deserves eventually.

    Take Care xxx
     
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    I love your attitude hun...stick to it and show him what a complete d*ck he's been by doing that to you and letting you go. Bring on NYE!! :D
     
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    Ooh, don't you worry!
    I'll definitely be showing him!
    Lost 6 lbs this week and I've still got plenty of time to lose even more to look as nice as I can :)
    Thank you everybody

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